Friday, October 29, 2010

梦想改变生命未来式

今天感觉很茫然,虽然为了梦想而打拼,不到最后一秒决不放弃。但是,人总是会累,会有一点懒惰,慢慢就失去人生的目标。老师说:目标是人生中的清醒剂,学习是成功的加速器。 说真的,我慢慢远离了学习会场。人啊总是要被提醒的,我们远离火炉,会慢慢失去梦想。人没有梦想,这是人生中最悲哀的。问一问自己,我为了什么而活?为自己?为我爱的人?我想都有吧。在做安利同时,我感觉自己好幸福,因为我还有梦。或许奋斗时,会有一点累。但是婉婷啊,请别放弃,请别放弃你的梦。我也会拥有我人生的六六大顺。幸福家庭:有一天你会真正遇到你的白马王子,和你度过“酸甜苦辣”的日子。经济保障:不必和穷日子大战,环游世界:看世界,所见所闻,增广见闻,健康及美丽的脸孔:少承受病痛和年龄的摧残,良实益友:一辈子的朋友,没有背叛和分离。非凡自由; 我想过个精彩人生,但这个人生是我喜欢的,有自由去做我喜欢做的。所谓:成功前做你应该做的,成功后就可以做你爱做的事。有梦想,就有动力去排除患难,不必被患难排除。加油,你一定可以的。为了你的梦想,拼了!!

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

20102010- "I have nothing special but me myself is already very special"

"I have nothing special but me myself is already very special"

I have nothing special, i am not pretty than others.I am just normal. However, me myself is already very special.God is amazing, he created me just the one and only in this world, that's why my name is Wan Ting
(One Thing) The one and only.

Everything happened just base on our thinking. For certain people, they will think that " i am normal, nothing special." Then they will never be improve because of their thought. People tend to set a limitation for themselves whereas certain people they might not look gorgeous or amazing. The most important is their thought is " I have nothing special, I dare to be different, me myself is already very special."

You see? One mindset can change all the situation. Which one you would like to be? For me, life is too short and too good. I rather to choose the one which has optimistic thinking. ^^

Today is 20102010, I would like to present this special blog in this special date to the one who is special, which is you.

Monday, October 18, 2010

Dream

I have plenty of dreams, from you i believe i can achieve it.
I never give up no matter how or no matter what happened.
Some time i might feel tired.
However, i know this is my destiny,
which to achieve my dream.
Wan Ting,
You must never never give up.
Always believe that what Walt Disney had said:

"If you can dream it, you can do it."
by Walt Disney

Thursday, October 14, 2010

请别爱上我

有一种女孩,她有點懶,她不擅長做家務。
  
她獨立,也好強,她寧願忍受太多的寂寞和痛苦也不願意向別人提起。
  
但其實骨子裡,渴望有一個避風港灣,讓她去依靠。但她不會承認。
  
她必須確定那個人是否可以承受得了這一切的,承受她的撒嬌,她的無理取鬧,她的倔強,她的悲觀,她所有的性格缺陷且永遠不離不棄。
  
只有這樣,她才放心,可以放心去繼續做自己,不會害怕有一天將要面對失去。如果沒有,那麼她只好繼續寂寞和孤獨。
  
她對愛情沒有安全感,也不會給別人安全感。
  
她一定要對方先流露出對她有好感,她才散發她的熱情。她愛的永遠是對她最好的那個,那個好她心裡是有一個標準的,你的積分超過了那條線,她會愛上你,但大多數人沒超過線之前就離開了,或者超過了之後沒等她看到就離開了。
  
其實她要的並不多,她要的只是一個溫暖的家。對她來說太重要了,雖然在她們口中說出來的卻是:我不需要愛情。
  
當你緊張他的異性朋友,她會一面跟你說,他只是我的誰誰誰,卻一面偷偷在意你的感受。。。
  
對她們而言,唯一具備殺傷力的只有感情,感情如果受到挫折,要么毀了她們,要么成就了她們。從此更加漠然,專注於事業。
  
她分手後完全不會像其他座在人面前要死要活,她嬉笑怒鬧,變得更加開朗。在聽到朋友說有關他的話題時,從不刻意迴避,她適當參與,淡然微笑,她的表現總會遭人懷疑這段感情的深淺,而人群中只有那些知道背後情節的人才看見她背後的眼淚和努力。
  
她從來不會在情人面前大聲哭泣,除非她真的崩潰了。
  
即使在你愛著她的時候,她也會胡思亂想讓自己悲傷。
  
如果你看到她的眼淚,請相信這絕不是她在博取同情,這是她這樣一顆內心驕傲的女子不得己的場景。
  
她想對你負責,對她負責,對自己的過去和未來負責,但請你不要輕易給她承諾和誓言。她很難相信。
  
即使她很難相信,但她還是會選擇等待。
  
她的傷初始濃烈似酒,很快就會變為一杯水,卻讓水滲入生活成為點點滴滴.她選擇在其中淡定,在其中沉默和內傷。
  
她就是這樣,強勢,霸道,任性。。。
  
不會討人歡心,死要面子,她愛朋友多過你。
  
她最有保護欲,最沒有秘密。
  
最暴躁,最善變,最沒耐心,最衝動,最耐不住寂寞卻又喜歡假惺惺的讓自己一個人呆著。
  
有時候她又充滿陽光的氣息,愛笑愛說話,活蹦亂跳,可愛迷人。。
  
她很自私,只願意與人同甘,不願意讓別人跟她共苦。
  
她的家庭不一定很是富裕,但她都是習慣了養尊處優。
  
她喜歡熱鬧,總會成為聚會的焦點,前提是她想。
  
她也享受孤獨,會靜坐在一個人的房間聽著很傷感的音樂。
  
她也會一整天呆在房間裡心情壓抑低落,但第二天一早起來,又會輕輕鬆鬆的打理一切,慌慌忙忙的拽著大衣拎著包往外衝。
  
她習慣在人前表現的很堅強,一付大女子主義的模樣。
  
她會想,遇到真正懂她愛她寵她的人,她就一定就會很安靜,心甘情願的安靜下來,不煩,不鬧,按時吃飯按時睡覺,按時做一切能安心和他一起做的事情。
  
她從不輕言愛,她的愛很沉默,那並非是因為她缺少那份勇氣,在她的心裡有一道柵欄,那就是自尊。
  
她看得比生命更尊貴的自尊。
  
如果有一個這樣的女孩對你說她愛你,那就代表在她的心裡你的分量勝過了她的自尊。
  
你不了解她,不懂她的好,就別愛她。她會在真正愛她的人面前卸掉所有的盔甲和偽裝,做個幸福的小女人,她不要求你要做什麼,不會無理取鬧要你陪著她,她有自己的生活,她給你空間因為她也需要空間。
  
她也會幻想,在遇到真正的他時,會在他累的時候悄悄熬上點營養粥,然後說,看你這麼不辭勞累本姑娘心情又不錯犒勞犒勞你。
  
她在你面前永遠性感調皮,偶爾撒撒嬌,跟你玩陌生人的遊戲,在你的朋友面前從來大方得體,微笑的依偎在你身邊。
  
她不讓你給她買這買那,她會說,我啊,是大女人,不喜歡男人給我買單。。。但是心裡卻會為你私自買給她的禮物而暗自開心,因為女人覺得那是你的寵愛。
  
她在意的是你的心,你若真心,她必然實意。最起碼你得表現的真心,能讓她感覺得到。
  
她會經常冒出些新鮮的想法來調劑生活,她的多變有時會讓你不安。
  
終有一天,她的敏感在你的呵護下慢慢消失不見,她的倔強被你的保護軟化,她的偽裝在你面前被輕易識穿。。。
  
得到她,別驕傲,因為沒人可以吃定她。
  
只有懂她的人,才會得到她的好。
  
她有時是有些遲鈍的,在感情方面,但有時很敏感,因為她在乎。
  
她有時想,當她遇上生命中的那個人,會愛的多麼濃烈,她渴望那種不計後果的極致,然後在強烈的碰撞中享受那種心痛感。
  
所以,別愛這樣的女孩,她太偏激,太虛偽,太粗心,又太神經質,太難伺候,太不溫柔。。。
  
如果你沒勇氣,沒能力可以堅持愛她,就別愛她。
  
因為如果你會離開,她的心將會永遠冰封,再也不會為任何人打開。。。。。

請別愛這樣的女孩,所以请别爱上我!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Neglect

Today is a new day for me, i don't know what i am thinking and i don't know what should i do. Recently, i have some arguement with my friend. She says she felt left out and she don't want i feel left out so she want me to join her for dinner. I feel touching, just i think i have this heart can d. If she feels happy i also feel happy. Neglect this word seems to be very familiar to me. Since his leaving and left everything to me, i already feel i am neglected. However,I should be optimist. I always be grateful, god had given me a nice and wonderful family. Sometime, my communication with my brother and sister not very good. Sometimes, I might think they don't understand me. Just i know they love me, it is already enough for everything. What i am thinking now is i really need to be strong and tough and treat my life seriously. Not only myself but my family. Just i feel everything happen is good thing. If not this thing happen, i will never feel god's love and my family love.

照耀我的星星


我有生气你吗?如果是,那我有原谅你吗?没头绪,对于这件事的发生,算是我人生中的一大考验吧。其实我想得是我从来不觉得我做错,我只是觉得我自己做得不够好。没能让“他”拥有更美好的人生,这是我一直在弥补的失败,而且会一直弥补下去。对于你,我只是你生命中的过客。你把我教你,分享给你的爱,全给了她,幸福的过下去。 虽然你不爱我,不过我会学习更爱我自己,更爱你给我的“它”。他会是我生命的星星,照耀着我。


Sunday, September 19, 2010

Tips of Worry

Imagine never being worried about anything! It seems like an impossibility. Here i have some sharing to you guys!!!


Seven Reasons Not to Worry

1. The same god who created life in you can be trusted with the details of your life. (Matthew 6:25)

2. Worrying about the future hampers of your efforts for today. (Matthew 6:26)

3. Worrying is more harmful than helpful. ( Matthew 6:27)

4. God does not ignore those who depend on him. (Matthew 6:28-30)

5. Worry shows a lack of faith and understanding of God. (Matthew6:31-32)

6. There are real challenges God wants us to pursue and worrying keeps us from them. (Matthew 6:33)

7. Living one day at a time keeps us from being consumed with worry. (Matthew 6:34)

Well, if this still cant make us avoid from worrying. Paul's advice is to turn our worries into prayers. Do you want to worry less? Then pray more! Whenever you start to worry, stop and pray. (Philippians 4:6-19)

Add on information special by Wan Ting, yay!! Worry will create free radical in our body makes us old and sick easily. Therefore, why not we stay cheerful for facing everything in a day.

Happy always, peace!!! Hehehe (^^)V

Saturday, September 18, 2010

The letter to my beloved one in my life


To my beloved one,


Today is a rainy day. I wrote this after I come back from my family meeting club. I couldn’t stop my tear drop, I cried. This is because I have heard my friend’s family member pass away. Surprisingly, I am very sad. I cannot describe my feeling that what will I feel if one day I will lost my beloved one. This incident let me feel that accident and tomorrow I will never know which will be the first to come. I just realize that I am really weak to face this incident if one day it comes to me. Suddenly, I find out one thing, my parents already had grown many white hairs. My dad is strict but he is caring whereas my mother is the best woman among the others. She is patient, she always told me that "Girl, you must always look at the good side of a person, everybody has their good site." Besides that, two of my sisters and brother are the one who go through with me during my childhood period. I still can remember the time when we are together to play fireworks during Chinese New Year. I am still young and little. After we had fire up the fire cracker, we are running for our life and I

m hiding behind my second sister back and close up my ears by using my little palms.


Not to forget for mentioning this group of friends of mine. We are studying in same primary and secondary school. We join in St. John uniform body, marching and sweating together. Today, five of us are separated around Malaysia. However, our bond is still there. In bible said "love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or ceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a records of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, patience never fail." In my teenager life, I have gone trough in relationship. I do learn the bible teaching practically in my relationship. Here, I have this important person; which she introduce god into my life. Lim Tse Hwei is her name. From my opinion, Tse Hwei is almost perfect among the people I had known. This girl has good characteristic, pretty, intelligent, smart, sporty

and talented. She is the one who has been gone through with me when I am facing the most terrible problem in my life and the memory between us is already embedded in my heart. Grateful and thankful feeling to her is always in my heart. It is happy to say that this year she is going to present me a bible as my birthday present. I have been introducing a good business by my god brother. This man has taught me many things in my daily life. He provides me the concept of "we are learning while we are growing." I have change from the character of pessimistic to optimistic under his guidance.


After I am starting to join the university life, I have met them; my dearest 141 roommates. In these two years, we had gone through sadness, happiness and hard work together. All of us are also growing and learning together. We do believe nobody will break the bond which created by us. One day, we will success in our life and achieve in our dream. “If we believe we can” is from the mouth of Rich Devos. Furthermore, I hope I can express my thankful to this beloved friend; he is a warm and kind friend. Apart from that, this gentleman is not only sharing bible knowledge to me, he does help me in my university life and provides a big and wonderful room for my activity.


At the end of my letter, I would like to thank god that you have planned this wonderful people be with me in my life. I will always love and appreciate all these people who is be with me.

I love you all.

Best Regard,

Dabby



Understanding Vs Demanding

I am not perfect. Sometime i might say something not from the bottom of my heart, i do understand your feeling, just the understanding make me wish to be alone because i don't want to burden you.

Memory

Healing is just a matter of time, keep ur pain n sorrow inside a treasure box. Don hate it, life experience is precious. Although we feel miserable when facing it, it makes us grow. Just keep it n be grateful to face the future.I might be just a passenger for u, but for me u r not. I appreciate ur appearance becoz u colored my life v rainbow color. With this memory makes me feel i have gone trough a meaningful life.

Courages

Friend, not only you are weak in this . Same as everybody, be tough and be strong.

Passenger

I feel that long time i didn't post my blog here. Suddenly feel want to post my feeling. I have no body can speak out. No body will read my blog too, only the one who concern me will read my blog. ^^ I dream of you last night, now i m looking the spec which change by you. You are change after you know me. Just i m just a passenger in your life ... Sometime i am tired feel want to go holiday alone. Whatever i do, i am just a passenger for you.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

我只是个女孩。

今天读了一篇“我只是女孩”,但是给自己的总结是‘我的只能容许我的外表是女孩,内心我只能是个男孩。不过也挺有意思的。:)

我只是个女孩。
我只是个女孩,我的简单爱  我希望有人疼,有人爱,有人包容,有人抱着我睡,有人让我撒娇,有人可以吃我做的饭,有人可以夸我乖,有人能陪在我身边,有人能过马路的时候拉着我的手,有人能给我安全。有人喜欢带我逛街,穿高跟鞋走累了都会有人背。有人乐意带我去他去的各种场合,并把我介绍给他的朋友们~

我只是个女孩。
我希望有人关心,有人保护,有人会记得每天告诉我晚安,有人告诉我他对我很安心。有人记得我们一起过去的点滴,有人绝对不把我们之间的承诺作儿戏。有人告诉我,照顾我,他一点也不累。

我只是个女孩。
希望有人认同我,有人认真思考然后告诉我他觉得我的话其实也有道理,在我做了点可爱的事情以后摸摸我的头鼓励我做的好。~有人不轻易夸我,也不吝啬使劲夸我。

我只是个女孩。
我希望能有人惦记我,在我郁闷大哭的时候把我的头按在胸膛哭够了问我怎么了。
我希望有人告诉我,有时候想念我令他难受。
我娇气,不放纵,不说谎。不会无理取闹,不会缠着他给我买东西。偶然一条短信告诉我他想我,我就知足。
我不演戏,我什么都相信。我说过的话都算数,所以,对我说过的,别忘记。请别忘记。
我会尽量变得更好看,相信海誓山盟。相信自己配的上自由和幸福。

我只是个女孩。
我喜欢诚实的人。因为我诚实。
如果我说我们不会再见了,我一定会躲开你。也许我还会在街边见到你,你又会如何回忆我。我会放过自己,放过压抑,放过附身的记忆。往事通缉,孤单侵袭,习惯就可以。
如果我的想念喷薄而出,我不会告诉你。尽管如此,那些思念依然值得我珍惜。
如果我相信你。我会告诉你,我可以不勇敢吗。那些勇敢的人都未必幸福,因为是不幸让他们勇敢。
我喜欢被勇敢的你守护着,因为有你,所以我不需要勇敢。

我只是个女孩。
我会难过,但是不会自甘堕落。
我会伤心,但是不会伤心太久。

也许我会遇见一个微笑的魔鬼,他将指引我,给我奇异的火花,他将短暂的照亮我的心灵。他会交给我幸福的预感,却拒绝给我一点点幸福。
也许我会遇见一个烂醉的天使,他神经质地微笑,给我看他掉了毛的翅膀,但是上面残存的每一片,都是能令我撑死的幸福。今天读了一篇“我只是女孩”,但是给自己的总结是‘我的只能容许我的外表是女孩,内心我只能是个男孩。不过也挺有意思的。:)

我只是个女孩。
我只是个女孩,我的简单爱  我希望有人疼,有人爱,有人包容,有人抱着我睡,有人让我撒娇,有人可以吃我做的饭,有人可以夸我乖,有人能陪在我身边,有人能过马路的时候拉着我的手,有人能给我安全。有人喜欢带我逛街,穿高跟鞋走累了都会有人背。有人乐意带我去他去的各种场合,并把我介绍给他的朋友们~

我只是个女孩。
我希望有人关心,有人保护,有人会记得每天告诉我晚安,有人告诉我他对我很安心。有人记得我们一起过去的点滴,有人绝对不把我们之间的承诺作儿戏。有人告诉我,照顾我,他一点也不累。

我只是个女孩。
希望有人认同我,有人认真思考然后告诉我他觉得我的话其实也有道理,在我做了点可爱的事情以后摸摸我的头鼓励我做的好。~有人不轻易夸我,也不吝啬使劲夸我。

我只是个女孩。
我希望能有人惦记我,在我郁闷大哭的时候把我的头按在胸膛哭够了问我怎么了。
我希望有人告诉我,有时候想念我令他难受。
我娇气,不放纵,不说谎。不会无理取闹,不会缠着他给我买东西。偶然一条短信告诉我他想我,我就知足。
我不演戏,我什么都相信。我说过的话都算数,所以,对我说过的,别忘记。请别忘记。
我会尽量变得更好看,相信海誓山盟。相信自己配的上自由和幸福。

我只是个女孩。
我喜欢诚实的人。因为我诚实。
如果我说我们不会再见了,我一定会躲开你。也许我还会在街边见到你,你又会如何回忆我。我会放过自己,放过压抑,放过附身的记忆。往事通缉,孤单侵袭,习惯就可以。
如果我的想念喷薄而出,我不会告诉你。尽管如此,那些思念依然值得我珍惜。
如果我相信你。我会告诉你,我可以不勇敢吗。那些勇敢的人都未必幸福,因为是不幸让他们勇敢。
我喜欢被勇敢的你守护着,因为有你,所以我不需要勇敢。

我只是个女孩。
我会难过,但是不会自甘堕落。
我会伤心,但是不会伤心太久。

也许我会遇见一个微笑的魔鬼,他将指引我,给我奇异的火花,他将短暂的照亮我的心灵。他会交给我幸福的预感,却拒绝给我一点点幸福。
也许我会遇见一个烂醉的天使,他神经质地微笑,给我看他掉了毛的翅膀,但是上面残存的每一片,都是能令我撑死的幸福。

Monday, May 24, 2010

摄影的魔法

最近听了一位摄影师所讲的,感觉好感动。

”我年轻的时候,就是个摄影师,
拍了不知道多少美丽的风景,人物。
但是直到他离开的那一天
我才发现
我们从来就没有一起合照过
正因为我是摄影师
总是掌镜的人
我却没能拥有任何一张
跟他的合照
如果时间倒转,哪有多好呀
当然那是不可能的事情
但是能有让时间暂停的魔法,
那就是摄影。不是吗?
摄影让瞬间变成永恒的魔法。
四十年了,回忆是靠不住的,
过了那么久,我都已经忘了
他笑起来的时候,眼睛眯成什么样子
如果可以,我宁愿忘了回家的路
我也不想忘记,有关他的每一个小细节
所以每当我按下快门,
我不是想要拍什么漂亮的东西
拍什么漂亮的相片
只是想让每一个客人留住永远不想忘记的瞬间。“

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Encouragement



晴天,雨天或阴天都不会影响我对你的热诚。

请赐我力量,让我完成你给我的任务。

或许它不简单,或许是你的用心良苦。

我相信我会坚持到底。

因为我相信你会陪在我身旁,所以我不害怕。

谢谢你


Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Green

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

我的心声

至大鬼,

你知道吗?今天我看了一部戏名为 “海派甜心”。女主角有一句话说“你曾经受过伤吗?你很哪让你伤心的人吗?恨他没有办法再让你爱上任何人。失去了爱人的能力,但是你有没有想过,当你伤心的时候,那个人比你更伤心。”你告诉我如果我们分手了,你不会再爱上别人。其实我是很伤心的,我对你真的是没有办法。你告诉我知足,老实说我从来就没有嫌弃过你什么。从头开始,每当别人说你的不是,我都坚持相信你。刚刚我回了一封讯息给你,告诉你其实说临一半不知足的人,会不会是自己不知足和不知福呢?失去你,我固然伤心。但是我很懊恼如何表达我的心声给你听,有口难言,面对你也无言。我想了一阵子,有了一个答案。当你越想要幸福时,它就会离你离得远远的,还是。。。或许这是报应吧。什么报应吗?**因为我的不知足,曾经把一段美好的爱情给毁了,还伤害了他。上天要让我经过他的道路,就把以前的我,就是你赐给了我。多希望我所表达的能从这个部落克传达给你。

愿你有一个快乐的马六甲之旅。

小鬼

爱他的方式


我读了一篇“爱他的方式”。据说爱一个人,要以他喜欢的方式对待他。但是,如果爱他的方式成了不爱自己的方式,那么这样的爱也就太卑微了。卑微的爱最后只会有两种结果,不是怨恨自己,就是怨恨对方。恰是纯白被太多落尘染成灰黑,不但背离了爱的初衷,而且爱得感觉也无法回来。如果爱他的方式正是爱你自己的方式,那么这样的爱才是可长可久,才能生生不息,才会心心相印。有爱的同时,也该有尊严。所以,亲爱的,不要为了爱一个人而赔上自己的尊严,一旦失去了尊严,也就失去了爱

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

守护神

我是谁?

我是你的守护神

如何让你遇见我

在这美丽的时刻

为着

我已经在佛前求了五百年

求他让我们结一段尘缘

佛于是把我化作了一棵树

长在你必经的路旁

阳光下 慎重的

开满了花

朵朵都是我前世的盼望

当你走近 请你细听

那颤抖的叶 是我等待的热情

而当你无视的走过

在你身后落了一地的

朋友阿 那不是花瓣

是我凋零的心

(那么久了,其实我想告诉你,改变你不是我的责任,守护你才是我的责任。)