祝福你

朋友，

你对他的感觉依然那么浓烈。你常想或许能回到过去单纯地爱他会很好；祝福他，鼓励他，照顾他，扶助他。但现在，明知他对你的感觉不如前一个。他视前一个的承诺稳如泰山，你的承诺轻于鸿毛。但是你依然坚持相信，真心的对他，有一天会感动和感化他的心。但是在这248天里，你只是自己骗自己，他的心不能融入你呀。他只是爱你对他的好，而不是你。如果有一天你不对他好了，他还会为你付出吗，那你又是什么呢？这个想法是你告诉我你在前一个的家时作客的看法，因为你看见他心不在焉，他可能自己察觉不到吧。我告诉你是不是多心了，你也曾想是你多心了，但你说你看到照片时，你崩溃了。你还曾抱着一线希望，愿他会向你认错。可是，希望和现实是不一样的。看开一点吧，你已经为你的感情付出努力了。一段感情是由两方面建立的，你已经付出50%，接下来要看临一方的50%了。之前他说会做好那50%，但是他过后说自己都照顾不好，不能照顾你。如果他那么难给你这50%，那就算了吧。朋友，最起码你曾拥有付出的感觉，那不就够了吗？*笑*

祝福你，
婉婷

別辜負了她

你在乎我吗？想必这一句对你和我一点也不陌生。对了，情侣间通常都会问对方类似的话题。可能我们会问是因为不明白对方吧。人与人之间就不可能知道对方的感想，因为我们不是他们嘛~可能相信了，是想要第二次的认证。其实当女生问这类的问题，男生会很懊恼哦~不过换个角度想吧，女生生成就缺乏安全感，她会问是因为在乎你呀？她就是在乎你，才会在乎你怎么看她，明白吗？*笑*

我很想冷静的想和你讨论你们之间的问题，我会保留。我不明白你那么在乎她，连她已经和别人拍拖两次了，视你为无物，你也能坦然地原谅和接受。你就是爱她爱到不管她犯任何东西你都能接受。你还会怀念她。。。 那现在呢？你的女朋友就被你责备，不管她为你做了多少，只要是缺点就被你嫌弃，为什么？ 当吵架你总是高高在上，你所做的东西是理所当然的。难为了她为你掉了多少眼泪。甚至你不知错，还一味的怪她。她真的有那么糟糕吗？不值得你为她做任何东西吗？比起哪一个什么都不做，视你的承诺为无物的人。珍惜吧，别失去才会伤心。我相信只要你有心，她会原谅你的。浪子回头金不换，希望你能用诚意挽回她吧。

爱情与背叛

什么是爱情，什么又是背叛。在感情世界里，重来没有对和错，爱情是个人所许罢了。有人会讲，心灵出轨是没错，是正常。老实说：我是buy心灵出轨这一件事，因为人不是100%，人总是有“吃不到葡萄，就会幻想吃葡萄回味的感觉”的概念。但是，如果要以身为男人告诉自己的临一半赞成自己说自己是正常当自己有女朋友还在想临外一个女孩子，我就会替那一位女人感到悲哀。我想请问各位，你们相信因果报应吗？我是相信的， 其实以上发生的事是真人真事，之前哪一个女孩子也曾发生类似的情况。正所谓，恶讯循环吧。如果一个人对你好，可是心里在怀念临一个，你们会认为这是爱吗？还是身为女人， 我们应该要睁一只眼，闭一只眼。好好的保持原有的美好，不去理会，才叫作爱情。

那么何谓叫背叛？难道是行动上出轨才是背叛? 在爱情里， 从来没有人会说出什么是对，什么是错。向来都是由对方所判断。爱情是会把人弄得昏昏因为它是从来没有道理的，惨的过人还是需要它。*笑* 每当他讲一句有希望的话，女人就会原谅，继续沉醉在感情世界里。世上最大的危机是人不懂危机的存在。感情问题依然存在，那你要怎么办？让人苦恼的是，爱情与背叛的差别就是一线差，在于我们的想法。我本人就不容许眼里有一粒沙，背叛会给我留下伤痛，我不能忍受的，除非是对方认错和诚心悔改。

我的分享就到此，那么你的呢？

眼里有一粒沙

如果如你所说的，

失去后才会是你的最爱，

那我宁愿成为你最爱的那个，

因为我不能允许眼里有一粒沙。

Living In A Grateful World

Be grateful to those who have hurt you,
for they have reinforced your detwrmination.

Be grateful to those who have deceieved you,
for they have deepened your insight.

Be grateful to those who have hit you,
for they have reduced your karmic obstacles.

Be grateful to those who have abandoned you,
for they have taught you to be independent.

Be grateful to those who have made you stumble,
for they have strengthened your ability.

Be grateful to those who have denounced you,
for they have increased your wisdom and concentration.

孝顺不能等

看了2012, 我有所感触。

各位，你们都爱你的另一半吗？ 你们是不是每天都和另一半说“我爱你”

可是，回头想想。我们最后一次和爸爸妈妈讲我爱你是什么时候呢？

妈妈怀胎九月，经过无数的煎熬，把我们生下来了。

爸爸呢，在外面受尽一切的委屈，都要赚钱回来抚养我们。

我们常常都忽略了他们，想一想他们几岁了呢？我们能陪伴他们的日子又有多少。

什么恩恩怨怨都好，不比珍惜在一起的时光重要呀。

所以，我们都要保持“孝顺不能等”的精神，来报答父母对我们的恩惠。

爱情

你知道吗？爱情是个非常奇妙的东西。

它能让你感觉世界充满希望，也能让你感觉世界充满绝望。

它能成为你的动力继续往人生的道路向前走，也能成为你人生道路中的负累。

当觉得很累时，女的是不是又觉得窝在亲爱的胸怀是一种依靠。

而男的，是不是想要用尽全力保护你的另一半，不在乎付出。累的时候，只想要看女朋友的一个甜美笑容，就足够了。

当困难发生时，老实说。。其实彼此都觉得很难受，但是情侣常常都不离不弃。为什么呢？

因为呀， 这是月老公公的游戏呀！^.^ 他老人家已把红线在对方身上套起来了。

不管你在哪里，在多遥远。 彼此爱对方的心已经投过他的红线传送给对方了，没有人能取代的。

或许有时候的误解，让我们觉得很伤心，可能很想放弃。

各位，要相信哦，大家的偶遇是一种福气，而能在一起也算是一种缘分。

所谓：珍惜才能拥有，感恩才能天长地久。

珍惜对方的一切，感恩能在万众中的奇遇。

I am TAG!!!

Instructions: Remove ONE question from below, and add in your personal question, make it a total of 20 questions, then tag 8 people in your list. Notify them in their chatbox that he/she has been tagged. (instructions intelligently modified by the current author =P)



1. Are you creative?
Ya. Why i say that? It's because i like to do handcraft and create card to my half or friends. *the point not strong eough, right?*



2. Do you like Yen Mei?
I am not very close with her but I like her and I like everyone.



3. If you only can choose one and give up another one, career or relationship. Which one you'll choose?Why?
I think i will choose relationship because i always hope i can have my owe family, i am the one taking care of children and my husband earn money for family.We share our burden together.



4. If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
I hope i can have my own happy family. ^^



5. Do you believe in seeing a rainbow after the rain?
Not really, i won't see it if too cloudy.



6. What are you afraid of losing the most now?Electricity supply and wireless connection. Cuz I haven’t saved this piece of work. But since the question implies only one answer, I shall say electricity supply. Cuz if wireless takde still can leave the com on till wireless comes back on.



7. If you win $1 million, what would you do?
I will use half to invest ( such as buy house or land and do some business) and bank in another half of the money to get the interest.



8. If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
Yes, I will. From my point of view, it's very difficult to find a person you love.



9. List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you.
Tse Hwei ah, She is caring, clever and helpful.



10. What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
The most important is i love him, it's already enough.



11. What annoys you the most?
N.A.T.O (No action talk only)



12. Which do you prefer from your other half? hug? or kiss?
Hug!! because it's warm.



13. If you have faults, would you rather the people around you point out to you or would you rather they keep quiet?
I hope them point out to me.



14. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
Trustworthy among friends, family and your lover.



15. Are you a shopaholic or not?
Hmmpm.. I have no idea. If i really need the thing i will walk the whole supermarket shop for it. Normally i don't do that.



16. What kind of electronic device/gadget you own that you like most?
Computer lor.

17. If you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change?
Me?I am pessismistic so i hope i can be optimist.

18. What makes you feel disappointed?
Reality in life



19. If given a chance, do you want to see your future?
No.we'll face problem in every moment.If i choose to see the future i'll feel scare, insecure and worry for the problem that will coming.



20. What do your friends label you as?
Observant, brave, creative, caring..(don't know la)

Bad Service

Why i put the title as bad service?

1. My mom ordered those furniture since 26 Feb and 25 April only they send us the furniture.
2. They promise us ,the stock will be arrive before 10 April but they didn't make it.
3. They send us wrong bed, the bed we ordered not that high.
4. They promise us will come in the afternoon for changing the low bed but they didn't make it.

If i drop from this bed, my bones sure break.

These are the computer table and drawer