Melody Of Life

那些年，我们一起追得女孩

2011-11-29T13:04:00.000-08:00

头头以为这部 “那些年，我们一起追得女孩” 是很俗气的电影。了解多了，就变得喜欢了。

我现在好像去看哦！！

RM7

妳是我不曾放下過的缺憾

2011-11-29T12:14:00.000-08:00

我看了这片文章，心想：“你”是这么想的吗？我也不知道，让自己感觉好点，就当你这样想吧。哈哈，傻瓜的我。

憤怒沒了，怨恨沒了，在妳轉身之後，我只剩下滿滿的不捨與疲憊......

一年後的今天，有人問起關於我們的故事，
我沒有再提起關於背叛和關於他
因為我們的故事最精采的不在他
而是在夕陽下，在我還騎著腳踏車的日子裡，載著妳和我們還沒下定論的未來

不恨妳了，就跟我對妳的愛一樣
跟隨妳離開的足跡漸行漸遠

雖然偶爾會想起妳的溫柔妳的可愛
但再細想關於現在的妳對於我來說有多陌生
那些過往也就化作一抹苦笑，最後深深的積在心底

有關於妳的東西，在分手之後我一樣都沒有留下
因為我怕我還依戀那上面的妳的餘溫
但就算是這樣，妳的影子一樣在我心裡佔了一個角落
每當一個人的夜晚，我總會走到那個角落，和過去的妳談心

過去的妳是我女友，也是我最能聊的知己
我真的不知道是到了什麼時候，我們都忘了拿捏那朋友跟情人之間的距離
最後靠的太近，太在乎彼此最後變成這種結局

其實一直很想妳，很想念過去的妳
因為現在的妳早就不是過去我認識，那個單純沒有心防的妳

在我之後，我知道妳也被傷了不少次
沒有任何報應心態，只有永遠說不出口的………

心疼

我沒有立場給妳建議，
因為我能站的任何立場，都充滿尷尬
更何況妳不會聽
我只能說，我希望妳過的更好，而不是像現在一樣盲目的四處尋求溫暖

妳知道在妳受傷的時候，我也在角落心疼妳，然後一個人灌酒嗎?
妳知道妳離開之後，我也忘記要怎麼去愛另外一個人嗎?
我真的不知道，當我因為妳而心疼的時候，是否妳也曾回頭看我一眼，然後為我難過?

或許愛情是不求回報，所以妳對我而言並不是愛情
但我知道，就算我再怎麼痛，也希望妳能找到真正能給妳幸福的人

最後，願妳真的懂得去愛一個人
也願，妳被妳真的愛的人所愛

最後我也會祝福我，想起如何去愛一個人...

I can Make a Difference in 2011

2011-01-10T18:44:00.000-08:00

Give me the courage to change what I can

To accept that which I can’t

And the wisdom to know the difference

Life is about choices

There was a time

I packed my dreams away

And off I went, trying to be an architect of my dreams

I gave my best, and work tirelessy

But things did not work out the way I planned.

I just don’t know why

Hmm.. sometimes life can be tough

And in those moments

I stop and look up >>>TO THE SKY

Perhaps, I Need to first look inside

In order to change what is on the outside

Change my ATTITUTE

My ATTITUTE will Make a Difference

MY ATTITUDE will determine my altitude

How high I can fly

Live with COURAGE

COURAGE Makes a Difference

COURAGE gives me the strength to carry on , to persist

Move with CONFIDENCE

SELF-CONFIDENCE Makes a Difference

SELF CONFIDENCE grows when I dare to try

Transform my DREAMS

My DREAMS will Make the Difference

DREAM BIG

The future belongs to those whom believe, and act

And NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP

We can MAKE A DIFFERENCE together

BELIEVE YOU CAN, AND YOU WILL

Lives with PASSION to Make a Difference

Live with LOVE

And enjoy a legacy of HOPE

Live with COURAGE

To achieve your DESTINY

STAND WITH US AND WE WILL STAND WITH YOU TOGETHER TO MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE

By RICH DEVOS

YOU ARE HERE BECAUSE TODAY YOU HAVE DREAMS

By JAY VANANDEL

新年。新开始。新希望

2011-01-03T00:44:00.000-08:00

太开心的，新的一年又开始了。每一次新的一年，我都会问一问自己有没有成长了，或做了什么有意义的事。很开心的说，我有！！！我在安利事业里达到我的金章了。老师说：安利不是你能不能，而是要不要。其实，我发觉到这一句话挺有意思。人啊，往往都把自己的想法困在一个框框里。据说人类其实有无限的潜能。这就让我想起一个老师曾经告诉过我的故事：

每一次小明都会放学走路回家，在回家的路途上一定会经过一个大大的水沟。他的选择是绕一个大圈过那一个水沟或直接越过，跳过去。但是，小明每一次经过水沟都想：我可以跳过吗？水沟很大呢，万一掉下去，怎么办！！！！想到这里，他就绕远路了。有一天，很不幸的。在放学的路上他被一只大野狗追了。追到大水沟，没办法了，没路可逃了，一跳就-“扑！”跳过去了！！回神过来，他已经在对岸了（野狗还在对岸不停的汪汪叫），小明自己都对自己的表现都感到惊讶。

对于这个故事，老师说问题是人想出来的，而人才是被挤出来的。如果小明不是被逼到，无路可退，也不会无可奈何的跳过去。

老师常说，想好的，看好的，说好的，做好的，我们就会得好的。

我的朋友“只要你相信，奇迹就一定会出现。” 希望你们在新的一年里，都是开开心心，快快乐乐。我把祝福都传送给你们。

梦想改变生命未来式

2010-10-29T06:18:00.001-07:00

今天感觉很茫然，虽然为了梦想而打拼，不到最后一秒决不放弃。但是，人总是会累，会有一点懒惰，慢慢就失去人生的目标。老师说：目标是人生中的清醒剂，学习是成功的加速器。说真的，我慢慢远离了学习会场。人啊总是要被提醒的，我们远离火炉，会慢慢失去梦想。人没有梦想，这是人生中最悲哀的。问一问自己，我为了什么而活？为自己？为我爱的人？我想都有吧。在做安利同时，我感觉自己好幸福，因为我还有梦。或许奋斗时，会有一点累。但是婉婷啊，请别放弃，请别放弃你的梦。我也会拥有我人生的六六大顺。幸福家庭：有一天你会真正遇到你的白马王子，和你度过“酸甜苦辣”的日子。经济保障：不必和穷日子大战，环游世界：看世界，所见所闻，增广见闻，健康及美丽的脸孔：少承受病痛和年龄的摧残，良实益友：一辈子的朋友，没有背叛和分离。非凡自由; 我想过个精彩人生，但这个人生是我喜欢的，有自由去做我喜欢做的。所谓：成功前做你应该做的，成功后就可以做你爱做的事。有梦想，就有动力去排除患难，不必被患难排除。加油，你一定可以的。为了你的梦想，拼了！！

20102010- "I have nothing special but me myself is already very special"

2010-10-20T04:20:00.000-07:00

"I have nothing special but me myself is already very special"

I have nothing special, i am not pretty than others.I am just normal. However, me myself is already very special.God is amazing, he created me just the one and only in this world, that's why my name is Wan Ting

(One Thing) The one and only.

Everything happened just base on our thinking. For certain people, they will think that " i am normal, nothing special." Then they will never be improve because of their thought. People tend to set a limitation for themselves whereas certain people they might not look gorgeous or amazing. The most important is their thought is " I have nothing special, I dare to be different, me myself is already very special."

You see? One mindset can change all the situation. Which one you would like to be? For me, life is too short and too good. I rather to choose the one which has optimistic thinking. ^^

Today is 20102010, I would like to present this special blog in this special date to the one who is special, which is you.

Dream

2010-10-18T11:33:00.000-07:00

I have plenty of dreams, from you i believe i can achieve it.

I never give up no matter how or no matter what happened.

Some time i might feel tired.

However, i know this is my destiny,

which to achieve my dream.

Wan Ting,

You must never never give up.

Always believe that what Walt Disney had said:

"If you can dream it, you can do it."

by Walt Disney

请别爱上我

2010-10-14T09:08:00.004-07:00

有一种女孩，她有點懶，她不擅長做家務。
　　
她獨立，也好強，她寧願忍受太多的寂寞和痛苦也不願意向別人提起。
　　
但其實骨子裡，渴望有一個避風港灣，讓她去依靠。但她不會承認。
　　
她必須確定那個人是否可以承受得了這一切的，承受她的撒嬌，她的無理取鬧，她的倔強，她的悲觀，她所有的性格缺陷且永遠不離不棄。
　　
只有這樣，她才放心，可以放心去繼續做自己，不會害怕有一天將要面對失去。如果沒有，那麼她只好繼續寂寞和孤獨。
　　
她對愛情沒有安全感，也不會給別人安全感。
　　
她一定要對方先流露出對她有好感，她才散發她的熱情。她愛的永遠是對她最好的那個，那個好她心裡是有一個標準的，你的積分超過了那條線，她會愛上你，但大多數人沒超過線之前就離開了，或者超過了之後沒等她看到就離開了。
　　
其實她要的並不多，她要的只是一個溫暖的家。對她來說太重要了，雖然在她們口中說出來的卻是：我不需要愛情。
　　
當你緊張他的異性朋友，她會一面跟你說，他只是我的誰誰誰，卻一面偷偷在意你的感受。。。
　　
對她們而言，唯一具備殺傷力的只有感情，感情如果受到挫折，要么毀了她們，要么成就了她們。從此更加漠然，專注於事業。
　　
她分手後完全不會像其他座在人面前要死要活，她嬉笑怒鬧，變得更加開朗。在聽到朋友說有關他的話題時，從不刻意迴避，她適當參與，淡然微笑，她的表現總會遭人懷疑這段感情的深淺，而人群中只有那些知道背後情節的人才看見她背後的眼淚和努力。
　　
她從來不會在情人面前大聲哭泣，除非她真的崩潰了。
　　
即使在你愛著她的時候，她也會胡思亂想讓自己悲傷。
　　
如果你看到她的眼淚，請相信這絕不是她在博取同情，這是她這樣一顆內心驕傲的女子不得己的場景。
　　
她想對你負責，對她負責，對自己的過去和未來負責，但請你不要輕易給她承諾和誓言。她很難相信。
　　
即使她很難相信，但她還是會選擇等待。
　　
她的傷初始濃烈似酒，很快就會變為一杯水，卻讓水滲入生活成為點點滴滴.她選擇在其中淡定，在其中沉默和內傷。
　　
她就是這樣，強勢，霸道，任性。。。
　　
不會討人歡心，死要面子，她愛朋友多過你。
　　
她最有保護欲，最沒有秘密。
　　
最暴躁，最善變，最沒耐心，最衝動，最耐不住寂寞卻又喜歡假惺惺的讓自己一個人呆著。
　　
有時候她又充滿陽光的氣息，愛笑愛說話，活蹦亂跳，可愛迷人。。
　　
她很自私，只願意與人同甘，不願意讓別人跟她共苦。
　　
她的家庭不一定很是富裕，但她都是習慣了養尊處優。
　　
她喜歡熱鬧，總會成為聚會的焦點，前提是她想。
　　
她也享受孤獨，會靜坐在一個人的房間聽著很傷感的音樂。
　　
她也會一整天呆在房間裡心情壓抑低落，但第二天一早起來，又會輕輕鬆鬆的打理一切，慌慌忙忙的拽著大衣拎著包往外衝。
　　
她習慣在人前表現的很堅強，一付大女子主義的模樣。
　　
她會想，遇到真正懂她愛她寵她的人，她就一定就會很安靜，心甘情願的安靜下來，不煩，不鬧，按時吃飯按時睡覺，按時做一切能安心和他一起做的事情。
　　
她從不輕言愛，她的愛很沉默，那並非是因為她缺少那份勇氣，在她的心裡有一道柵欄，那就是自尊。
　　
她看得比生命更尊貴的自尊。
　　
如果有一個這樣的女孩對你說她愛你，那就代表在她的心裡你的分量勝過了她的自尊。
　　
你不了解她，不懂她的好，就別愛她。她會在真正愛她的人面前卸掉所有的盔甲和偽裝，做個幸福的小女人，她不要求你要做什麼，不會無理取鬧要你陪著她，她有自己的生活，她給你空間因為她也需要空間。
　　
她也會幻想，在遇到真正的他時，會在他累的時候悄悄熬上點營養粥，然後說，看你這麼不辭勞累本姑娘心情又不錯犒勞犒勞你。
　　
她在你面前永遠性感調皮，偶爾撒撒嬌，跟你玩陌生人的遊戲，在你的朋友面前從來大方得體，微笑的依偎在你身邊。
　　
她不讓你給她買這買那，她會說，我啊，是大女人，不喜歡男人給我買單。。。但是心裡卻會為你私自買給她的禮物而暗自開心，因為女人覺得那是你的寵愛。
　　
她在意的是你的心，你若真心，她必然實意。最起碼你得表現的真心，能讓她感覺得到。
　　
她會經常冒出些新鮮的想法來調劑生活，她的多變有時會讓你不安。
　　
終有一天，她的敏感在你的呵護下慢慢消失不見，她的倔強被你的保護軟化，她的偽裝在你面前被輕易識穿。。。
　　
得到她，別驕傲，因為沒人可以吃定她。
　　
只有懂她的人，才會得到她的好。
　　
她有時是有些遲鈍的，在感情方面，但有時很敏感，因為她在乎。
　　
她有時想，當她遇上生命中的那個人，會愛的多麼濃烈，她渴望那種不計後果的極致，然後在強烈的碰撞中享受那種心痛感。
　　
所以，別愛這樣的女孩，她太偏激，太虛偽，太粗心，又太神經質，太難伺候，太不溫柔。。。
　　
如果你沒勇氣，沒能力可以堅持愛她，就別愛她。
　　
因為如果你會離開，她的心將會永遠冰封，再也不會為任何人打開。。。。。。

請別愛這樣的女孩，所以请别爱上我！

Neglect

2010-10-07T21:54:00.000-07:00

Today is a new day for me, i don't know what i am thinking and i don't know what should i do. Recently, i have some arguement with my friend. She says she felt left out and she don't want i feel left out so she want me to join her for dinner. I feel touching, just i think i have this heart can d. If she feels happy i also feel happy. Neglect this word seems to be very familiar to me. Since his leaving and left everything to me, i already feel i am neglected. However，I should be optimist. I always be grateful, god had given me a nice and wonderful family. Sometime, my communication with my brother and sister not very good. Sometimes, I might think they don't understand me. Just i know they love me, it is already enough for everything. What i am thinking now is i really need to be strong and tough and treat my life seriously. Not only myself but my family. Just i feel everything happen is good thing. If not this thing happen, i will never feel god's love and my family love.

照耀我的星星

2010-10-07T02:02:00.001-07:00

我有生气你吗？如果是，那我有原谅你吗？没头绪，对于这件事的发生，算是我人生中的一大考验吧。其实我想得是我从来不觉得我做错，我只是觉得我自己做得不够好。没能让“他”拥有更美好的人生，这是我一直在弥补的失败，而且会一直弥补下去。对于你，我只是你生命中的过客。你把我教你，分享给你的爱，全给了她，幸福的过下去。虽然你不爱我，不过我会学习更爱我自己，更爱你给我的“它”。他会是我生命的星星，照耀着我。

Tips of Worry

2010-09-19T01:56:00.000-07:00

Imagine never being worried about anything! It seems like an impossibility. Here i have some sharing to you guys!!!

Seven Reasons Not to Worry

1. The same god who created life in you can be trusted with the details of your life. (Matthew 6:25)

2. Worrying about the future hampers of your efforts for today. (Matthew 6:26)

3. Worrying is more harmful than helpful. ( Matthew 6:27)

4. God does not ignore those who depend on him. (Matthew 6:28-30)

5. Worry shows a lack of faith and understanding of God. (Matthew6:31-32)

6. There are real challenges God wants us to pursue and worrying keeps us from them. (Matthew 6:33)

7. Living one day at a time keeps us from being consumed with worry. (Matthew 6:34)

Well, if this still cant make us avoid from worrying. Paul's advice is to turn our worries into prayers. Do you want to worry less? Then pray more! Whenever you start to worry, stop and pray. (Philippians 4:6-19)

Add on information special by Wan Ting, yay!! Worry will create free radical in our body makes us old and sick easily. Therefore, why not we stay cheerful for facing everything in a day.

Happy always, peace!!! Hehehe (^^)V

The letter to my beloved one in my life

2010-09-18T11:19:00.000-07:00

To my beloved one,

Today is a rainy day. I wrote this after I come back from my family meeting club. I couldn’t stop my tear drop, I cried. This is because I have heard my friend’s family member pass away. Surprisingly, I am very sad. I cannot describe my feeling that what will I feel if one day I will lost my beloved one. This incident let me feel that accident and tomorrow I will never know which will be the first to come. I just realize that I am really weak to face this incident if one day it comes to me. Suddenly, I find out one thing, my parents already had grown many white hairs. My dad is strict but he is caring whereas my mother is the best woman among the others. She is patient, she always told me that "Girl, you must always look at the good side of a person, everybody has their good site." Besides that, two of my sisters and brother are the one who go through with me during my childhood period. I still can remember the time when we are together to play fireworks during Chinese New Year. I am still young and little. After we had fire up the fire cracker, we are running for our life and I

m hiding behind my second sister back and close up my ears by using my little palms.

Not to forget for mentioning this group of friends of mine. We are studying in same primary and secondary school. We join in St. John uniform body, marching and sweating together. Today, five of us are separated around Malaysia. However, our bond is still there. In bible said "love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or ceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a records of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, patience never fail." In my teenager life, I have gone trough in relationship. I do learn the bible teaching practically in my relationship. Here, I have this important person; which she introduce god into my life. Lim Tse Hwei is her name. From my opinion, Tse Hwei is almost perfect among the people I had known. This girl has good characteristic, pretty, intelligent, smart, sporty

and talented. She is the one who has been gone through with me when I am facing the most terrible problem in my life and the memory between us is already embedded in my heart. Grateful and thankful feeling to her is always in my heart. It is happy to say that this year she is going to present me a bible as my birthday present. I have been introducing a good business by my god brother. This man has taught me many things in my daily life. He provides me the concept of "we are learning while we are growing." I have change from the character of pessimistic to optimistic under his guidance.

After I am starting to join the university life, I have met them; my dearest 141 roommates. In these two years, we had gone through sadness, happiness and hard work together. All of us are also growing and learning together. We do believe nobody will break the bond which created by us. One day, we will success in our life and achieve in our dream. “If we believe we can” is from the mouth of Rich Devos. Furthermore, I hope I can express my thankful to this beloved friend; he is a warm and kind friend. Apart from that, this gentleman is not only sharing bible knowledge to me, he does help me in my university life and provides a big and wonderful room for my activity.

At the end of my letter, I would like to thank god that you have planned this wonderful people be with me in my life. I will always love and appreciate all these people who is be with me.

I love you all.

Best Regard,

Dabby

Understanding Vs Demanding

2010-09-18T10:54:00.000-07:00

I am not perfect. Sometime i might say something not from the bottom of my heart, i do understand your feeling, just the understanding make me wish to be alone because i don't want to burden you.

Memory

2010-09-18T10:53:00.001-07:00

Healing is just a matter of time, keep ur pain n sorrow inside a treasure box. Don hate it, life experience is precious. Although we feel miserable when facing it, it makes us grow. Just keep it n be grateful to face the future.I might be just a passenger for u, but for me u r not. I appreciate ur appearance becoz u colored my life v rainbow color. With this memory makes me feel i have gone trough a meaningful life.

Courages

2010-09-18T04:00:00.000-07:00

Friend, not only you are weak in this . Same as everybody, be tough and be strong.

Passenger

2010-09-18T03:52:00.000-07:00

I feel that long time i didn't post my blog here. Suddenly feel want to post my feeling. I have no body can speak out. No body will read my blog too, only the one who concern me will read my blog. ^^ I dream of you last night, now i m looking the spec which change by you. You are change after you know me. Just i m just a passenger in your life ... Sometime i am tired feel want to go holiday alone. Whatever i do, i am just a passenger for you.

我只是个女孩。

2010-05-26T00:23:00.001-07:00

今天读了一篇“我只是女孩”，但是给自己的总结是‘我的只能容许我的外表是女孩，内心我只能是个男孩。不过也挺有意思的。:)

我只是个女孩。
我只是个女孩，我的简单爱　　我希望有人疼，有人爱，有人包容，有人抱着我睡，有人让我撒娇，有人可以吃我做的饭，有人可以夸我乖，有人能陪在我身边，有人能过马路的时候拉着我的手，有人能给我安全。有人喜欢带我逛街，穿高跟鞋走累了都会有人背。有人乐意带我去他去的各种场合，并把我介绍给他的朋友们~

我只是个女孩。
我希望有人关心，有人保护，有人会记得每天告诉我晚安，有人告诉我他对我很安心。有人记得我们一起过去的点滴，有人绝对不把我们之间的承诺作儿戏。有人告诉我，照顾我，他一点也不累。

我只是个女孩。
希望有人认同我，有人认真思考然后告诉我他觉得我的话其实也有道理，在我做了点可爱的事情以后摸摸我的头鼓励我做的好。~有人不轻易夸我，也不吝啬使劲夸我。

我只是个女孩。
我希望能有人惦记我，在我郁闷大哭的时候把我的头按在胸膛哭够了问我怎么了。
我希望有人告诉我，有时候想念我令他难受。
我娇气，不放纵，不说谎。不会无理取闹，不会缠着他给我买东西。偶然一条短信告诉我他想我，我就知足。
我不演戏，我什么都相信。我说过的话都算数，所以，对我说过的，别忘记。请别忘记。
我会尽量变得更好看，相信海誓山盟。相信自己配的上自由和幸福。

我只是个女孩。
我喜欢诚实的人。因为我诚实。
如果我说我们不会再见了，我一定会躲开你。也许我还会在街边见到你，你又会如何回忆我。我会放过自己，放过压抑，放过附身的记忆。往事通缉，孤单侵袭，习惯就可以。
如果我的想念喷薄而出，我不会告诉你。尽管如此，那些思念依然值得我珍惜。
如果我相信你。我会告诉你，我可以不勇敢吗。那些勇敢的人都未必幸福，因为是不幸让他们勇敢。
我喜欢被勇敢的你守护着，因为有你，所以我不需要勇敢。

我只是个女孩。
我会难过，但是不会自甘堕落。
我会伤心，但是不会伤心太久。

也许我会遇见一个微笑的魔鬼，他将指引我，给我奇异的火花，他将短暂的照亮我的心灵。他会交给我幸福的预感，却拒绝给我一点点幸福。
也许我会遇见一个烂醉的天使，他神经质地微笑，给我看他掉了毛的翅膀，但是上面残存的每一片，都是能令我撑死的幸福。今天读了一篇“我只是女孩”，但是给自己的总结是‘我的只能容许我的外表是女孩，内心我只能是个男孩。不过也挺有意思的。:)

我只是个女孩。
我只是个女孩，我的简单爱　　我希望有人疼，有人爱，有人包容，有人抱着我睡，有人让我撒娇，有人可以吃我做的饭，有人可以夸我乖，有人能陪在我身边，有人能过马路的时候拉着我的手，有人能给我安全。有人喜欢带我逛街，穿高跟鞋走累了都会有人背。有人乐意带我去他去的各种场合，并把我介绍给他的朋友们~

我只是个女孩。
我希望有人关心，有人保护，有人会记得每天告诉我晚安，有人告诉我他对我很安心。有人记得我们一起过去的点滴，有人绝对不把我们之间的承诺作儿戏。有人告诉我，照顾我，他一点也不累。

我只是个女孩。
希望有人认同我，有人认真思考然后告诉我他觉得我的话其实也有道理，在我做了点可爱的事情以后摸摸我的头鼓励我做的好。~有人不轻易夸我，也不吝啬使劲夸我。

我只是个女孩。
我希望能有人惦记我，在我郁闷大哭的时候把我的头按在胸膛哭够了问我怎么了。
我希望有人告诉我，有时候想念我令他难受。
我娇气，不放纵，不说谎。不会无理取闹，不会缠着他给我买东西。偶然一条短信告诉我他想我，我就知足。
我不演戏，我什么都相信。我说过的话都算数，所以，对我说过的，别忘记。请别忘记。
我会尽量变得更好看，相信海誓山盟。相信自己配的上自由和幸福。

我只是个女孩。
我喜欢诚实的人。因为我诚实。
如果我说我们不会再见了，我一定会躲开你。也许我还会在街边见到你，你又会如何回忆我。我会放过自己，放过压抑，放过附身的记忆。往事通缉，孤单侵袭，习惯就可以。
如果我的想念喷薄而出，我不会告诉你。尽管如此，那些思念依然值得我珍惜。
如果我相信你。我会告诉你，我可以不勇敢吗。那些勇敢的人都未必幸福，因为是不幸让他们勇敢。
我喜欢被勇敢的你守护着，因为有你，所以我不需要勇敢。

我只是个女孩。
我会难过，但是不会自甘堕落。
我会伤心，但是不会伤心太久。

也许我会遇见一个微笑的魔鬼，他将指引我，给我奇异的火花，他将短暂的照亮我的心灵。他会交给我幸福的预感，却拒绝给我一点点幸福。
也许我会遇见一个烂醉的天使，他神经质地微笑，给我看他掉了毛的翅膀，但是上面残存的每一片，都是能令我撑死的幸福。

摄影的魔法

2010-05-24T12:08:00.000-07:00

最近听了一位摄影师所讲的，感觉好感动。

”我年轻的时候，就是个摄影师，

拍了不知道多少美丽的风景，人物。

但是直到他离开的那一天

我才发现

我们从来就没有一起合照过

正因为我是摄影师

总是掌镜的人

我却没能拥有任何一张

跟他的合照

如果时间倒转，哪有多好呀

当然那是不可能的事情

但是能有让时间暂停的魔法，

那就是摄影。不是吗？

摄影让瞬间变成永恒的魔法。

四十年了，回忆是靠不住的，

过了那么久，我都已经忘了

他笑起来的时候，眼睛眯成什么样子

如果可以，我宁愿忘了回家的路

我也不想忘记，有关他的每一个小细节

所以每当我按下快门，

我不是想要拍什么漂亮的东西

拍什么漂亮的相片

只是想让每一个客人留住永远不想忘记的瞬间。“

Encouragement

2010-05-19T17:33:00.000-07:00

http://dennisgullion.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/f102374encouragement-climbers-posters1.jpg

晴天，雨天或阴天都不会影响我对你的热诚。

请赐我力量，让我完成你给我的任务。

或许它不简单，或许是你的用心良苦。

我相信我会坚持到底。

因为我相信你会陪在我身旁，所以我不害怕。

谢谢你

Green

2010-05-04T22:04:00.000-07:00

Crystal Chua Collection

2010-05-01T23:57:00.000-07:00

Where are you?

2010-04-14T23:04:00.000-07:00

100 Plus

2010-04-14T22:57:00.000-07:00

Taiwan i am loving it

2010-03-30T06:13:00.000-07:00

Angel Lost in The Jungle

2010-03-30T06:04:00.000-07:00

Friendship

2010-03-30T05:53:00.000-07:00

我的心声

2010-03-10T16:48:00.001-08:00

至大鬼，

你知道吗？今天我看了一部戏名为 “海派甜心”。女主角有一句话说“你曾经受过伤吗？你很哪让你伤心的人吗？恨他没有办法再让你爱上任何人。失去了爱人的能力，但是你有没有想过，当你伤心的时候，那个人比你更伤心。”你告诉我如果我们分手了，你不会再爱上别人。其实我是很伤心的，我对你真的是没有办法。你告诉我知足，老实说我从来就没有嫌弃过你什么。从头开始，每当别人说你的不是，我都坚持相信你。刚刚我回了一封讯息给你，告诉你其实说临一半不知足的人，会不会是自己不知足和不知福呢？失去你，我固然伤心。但是我很懊恼如何表达我的心声给你听，有口难言，面对你也无言。我想了一阵子，有了一个答案。当你越想要幸福时，它就会离你离得远远的，还是。。。或许这是报应吧。什么报应吗？*笑*因为我的不知足，曾经把一段美好的爱情给毁了，还伤害了他。上天要让我经过他的道路，就把以前的我，就是你赐给了我。多希望我所表达的能从这个部落克传达给你。

愿你有一个快乐的马六甲之旅。

小鬼上

爱他的方式

2010-03-10T16:30:00.000-08:00

我读了一篇“爱他的方式”。据说爱一个人，要以他喜欢的方式对待他。但是，如果爱他的方式成了不爱自己的方式，那么这样的爱也就太卑微了。卑微的爱最后只会有两种结果，不是怨恨自己，就是怨恨对方。恰是纯白被太多落尘染成灰黑，不但背离了爱的初衷，而且爱得感觉也无法回来。如果爱他的方式正是爱你自己的方式，那么这样的爱才是可长可久，才能生生不息，才会心心相印。有爱的同时，也该有尊严。所以，亲爱的，不要为了爱一个人而赔上自己的尊严，一旦失去了尊严，也就失去了爱

守护神

2010-03-03T04:04:00.000-08:00

我是谁？

我是你的守护神

如何让你遇见我

在这美丽的时刻

为着

我已经在佛前求了五百年

求他让我们结一段尘缘

佛于是把我化作了一棵树

长在你必经的路旁

阳光下慎重的

开满了花

朵朵都是我前世的盼望

当你走近请你细听

那颤抖的叶是我等待的热情

而当你无视的走过

在你身后落了一地的

朋友阿那不是花瓣

是我凋零的心

（那么久了，其实我想告诉你，改变你不是我的责任，守护你才是我的责任。）

忙里偷闲

2010-03-03T04:02:00.000-08:00

阿咯 ,每天都在写伤心的爱情。今天我们来一点不同的吧，换一换感觉。在现今的生活里，每個人都有忙不完的任務. 家庭主妇有忙不完的家务，上班族有忙不完的工作，学生有忙不完的学业。难道说这样就不能有休闲时间吗？不是哦，其实午餐，晚餐和冲量的时间就是我们休闲的时间。如果我们要做我们爱做的东西就要学会忙里偷闲。什么叫做忙里偷闲呢？例如，我现在是一位大学生，最近学业超级多的呢！！怎么办!!?哈哈，就在这时候，每当我在吃晚餐时，我可以一边吃，一边享受戏剧。嗯，再给你们另一个例子吧。如果有男女朋友的人，我们又要顾及工作，又要顾及女朋友，很糟糕吧。在这时候你可以先专心的工作，到一段时间。当你觉得压力了，想休息一下。那么就休息一下吧，打给女朋友聊一聊，就能增进感情。但是可别讲那么久哦(p/s:当盖电话时也要想女友声明哦，你是很忙可是一有空第一就想的是她，可是请她谅解你不能讲那么久，记得哦，要用好的语气，别觉得要得到她的谅解是理所当然的，好吗？)不然工作做不完，被责备了，可会造成压力。对感情就会有反效果哦。*笑* 好了，我忙里偷闲完了。你们大家也要加油哦，别觉得压力，工作一点一点做就会完成的。拜~

加油

2010-02-25T19:09:00.000-08:00

朋友，

今天又是新的一天了。明天是你的考试呢，你一定要加油。你记得我们的承诺吗？你告诉我你要考试考好好，所以就不用还ptptn，不知道你还记得吗？大家都有自己的事要做，他已经长大了。你让他追回他失去的时间吧。他很想学习独立和照顾自己，这不是你最想看到的吗？难得他那么有心，但是，你也不赖，你也有你的目标；学业加安利。哎哟，没有时间让你再浪费了，你知道？怎样的爱情也逃不过现实的考验，人呢却只有24小时，我们没那么多时间兼顾爱情和面包。给你自己一段时间吧，压力的生活已经折磨你很多天的睡眠了。从今天开始，好好的睡吧。你要知道你不是一个人，我会常常陪着你给你鼓励的。加油哦，世界还有很多美好的事物要你去发掘。我爱你。

婉婷

雨天

2010-02-25T02:36:00.000-08:00

今天的天气很阴，
就如我的心情一样，
哗啦，哗啦，天空下了起雨，
我走人雨中，
希望雨水能冲走我的悲伤。

祝福你

2010-02-24T05:23:00.000-08:00

朋友，

你对他的感觉依然那么浓烈。你常想或许能回到过去单纯地爱他会很好；祝福他，鼓励他，照顾他，扶助他。但现在，明知他对你的感觉不如前一个。他视前一个的承诺稳如泰山，你的承诺轻于鸿毛。但是你依然坚持相信，真心的对他，有一天会感动和感化他的心。但是在这248天里，你只是自己骗自己，他的心不能融入你呀。他只是爱你对他的好，而不是你。如果有一天你不对他好了，他还会为你付出吗，那你又是什么呢？这个想法是你告诉我你在前一个的家时作客的看法，因为你看见他心不在焉，他可能自己察觉不到吧。我告诉你是不是多心了，你也曾想是你多心了，但你说你看到照片时，你崩溃了。你还曾抱着一线希望，愿他会向你认错。可是，希望和现实是不一样的。看开一点吧，你已经为你的感情付出努力了。一段感情是由两方面建立的，你已经付出50%，接下来要看临一方的50%了。之前他说会做好那50%，但是他过后说自己都照顾不好，不能照顾你。如果他那么难给你这50%，那就算了吧。朋友，最起码你曾拥有付出的感觉，那不就够了吗？*笑*

祝福你，
婉婷

別辜負了她

2010-02-23T23:05:00.001-08:00

你在乎我吗？想必这一句对你和我一点也不陌生。对了，情侣间通常都会问对方类似的话题。可能我们会问是因为不明白对方吧。人与人之间就不可能知道对方的感想，因为我们不是他们嘛~可能相信了，是想要第二次的认证。其实当女生问这类的问题，男生会很懊恼哦~不过换个角度想吧，女生生成就缺乏安全感，她会问是因为在乎你呀？她就是在乎你，才会在乎你怎么看她，明白吗？*笑*

我很想冷静的想和你讨论你们之间的问题，我会保留。我不明白你那么在乎她，连她已经和别人拍拖两次了，视你为无物，你也能坦然地原谅和接受。你就是爱她爱到不管她犯任何东西你都能接受。你还会怀念她。。。那现在呢？你的女朋友就被你责备，不管她为你做了多少，只要是缺点就被你嫌弃，为什么？当吵架你总是高高在上，你所做的东西是理所当然的。难为了她为你掉了多少眼泪。甚至你不知错，还一味的怪她。她真的有那么糟糕吗？不值得你为她做任何东西吗？比起哪一个什么都不做，视你的承诺为无物的人。珍惜吧，别失去才会伤心。我相信只要你有心，她会原谅你的。浪子回头金不换，希望你能用诚意挽回她吧。

爱情与背叛

2010-02-22T21:13:00.000-08:00

什么是爱情，什么又是背叛。在感情世界里，重来没有对和错，爱情是个人所许罢了。有人会讲，心灵出轨是没错，是正常。老实说：我是buy心灵出轨这一件事，因为人不是100%，人总是有“吃不到葡萄，就会幻想吃葡萄回味的感觉”的概念。但是，如果要以身为男人告诉自己的临一半赞成自己说自己是正常当自己有女朋友还在想临外一个女孩子，我就会替那一位女人感到悲哀。我想请问各位，你们相信因果报应吗？我是相信的，其实以上发生的事是真人真事，之前哪一个女孩子也曾发生类似的情况。正所谓，恶讯循环吧。如果一个人对你好，可是心里在怀念临一个，你们会认为这是爱吗？还是身为女人，我们应该要睁一只眼，闭一只眼。好好的保持原有的美好，不去理会，才叫作爱情。

那么何谓叫背叛？难道是行动上出轨才是背叛? 在爱情里，从来没有人会说出什么是对，什么是错。向来都是由对方所判断。爱情是会把人弄得昏昏因为它是从来没有道理的，惨的过人还是需要它。*笑* 每当他讲一句有希望的话，女人就会原谅，继续沉醉在感情世界里。世上最大的危机是人不懂危机的存在。感情问题依然存在，那你要怎么办？让人苦恼的是，爱情与背叛的差别就是一线差，在于我们的想法。我本人就不容许眼里有一粒沙，背叛会给我留下伤痛，我不能忍受的，除非是对方认错和诚心悔改。

我的分享就到此，那么你的呢？

眼里有一粒沙

2010-02-21T14:00:00.000-08:00

如果如你所说的，

失去后才会是你的最爱，

那我宁愿成为你最爱的那个，

因为我不能允许眼里有一粒沙。

First Photonian Outing

2009-12-13T20:48:00.000-08:00

Sunday (13 December 2009) is the first day i join photonian outing. Before that, i am very excited because i never been photography outing before. Ohya!!! photonian is organize by a group of people who love to take photo. *i have to use love but not like ^^*

Photonian logo

The 4 Models (Yovi, Crystal, Agnes and Pau Ling)

Our outing schedule

1.00pm Having lunch at Federal Yong Tau Hu Bkt Beruang

1. 45pm Gather at Taman Tasik Utama Uncle John

3.00pm Briefing

4.00pm Reach Snapping Destination

7.00pm Finish

The Photonian Members

Seniors (Fuioo~~ All the lens so long!!)

My Group

That day we have 4 groups and I am under Max group. Max is caring, he always take care of the beginner. He told us " Never mind, you snap first, don't worry you will block me, i will take my own angle." He has put priority to us, How grateful we can get such a nice leader.

Me !!!!!!

Problem That We Gone Trough

That place is an urban area, which you can see a lot of "gold" on the floor. Too bad to say that one of the group member step on it. I guess he is gonna wash his shoes madly. ^^My problem is i need to improve my basic skill of taking photo. I have miss out many nice shoot because of my pity skill. Further more, we also attack by the red ants army and mosquito army. I am pity for our models. However, they are professional and giving good commitment.

Leader Max's Photo

My experience

After that day outing, i have learnt a lot of thing although i feel tired .Apart from that, I feel thankful to the main organizer for this outing; Mr goh and all the seniors who take care of me especially simmon and jonathan. If simmon didn't lend me his D60 i would not get to join this photo session. Jonathan also let me try his D90 for a moment, It is great!!!!

I Have Dream

2009-12-13T20:38:00.000-08:00

I have dream.

I love to dream.

I am sure i can reach to them

I try.

I fail and i keep trying.

You will never know my feeling

i believe i can reach it.

Family Happiness

Become superstar

Finantial secure

Stay healthy and beautiful

Freedom and travel all around

Life style secure

I know it's hard

You will laugh

you will tease

I don't care

because i know what i want

i believe

i do believe.

One day i will reach it

Because i have dream.

What a Lousy Drinker

2009-12-11T17:06:00.000-08:00

Yesterday after having class at muar, i went to yee ying's birthday party "Forever 21" which locate in Orna resort. Guess what, the house she rent is same as my god brother rent for wedding. When i walk in, it is really a party feel inside the house. Yee Ying is hospitable, she invite me for a drink. Wow~~ I feel surprise is on the table got all types of whiskey that i never see before. Well, i know i am a lousy drinker, just want to take this opportunity to try it. My friend make a glass of screw driver (vodka + Orange juice) to me, i drink half tin of beer and a glass of white whiskey which got apple flavour. That time i am enjoying, suddenly i feel my head like increase a few kg. I think i gonna go back d because mom is waiting for me. On the way back to home i feel my headache getting serious. Suddenly i am feeling vomit then i am drop at a petrol station and start to vomit. =.=""" What a shame things i have go trough yesterday night.

Do you know what conclusion i get? Zees~~I am such a lousy drinker!!!

The Power of Photo Editing

2009-12-08T02:23:00.000-08:00

Last few days i edit photo until i am quite tired. Suddenly when this photo appear, i have some feeling to this photo. Ling's smile is charming and Xiang's baby is so cute. Somehow i find caring and loving in this photo. After that, i have 2 version of the photo editing :

Tada!!!

Picture A : It has the feeling of old and warm feel because it is using brown colour; which is warm color.

Picture B : It is just an enhancement for the contra, light and colour from the original photo.

Logo for Photographer Kiat

2009-12-06T00:17:00.000-08:00

Yawn~~~ Suddenly come across an idea want to make a icon for my friend . This is the icon i have made. Hope he will like it.

恋雨-<萧人凤>

2009-12-03T01:32:00.000-08:00

#你知道吗在雨天认识的人会变成好朋友

多么想再遇见你想遇见你都在梦里

多么想要忘记你像忘记自己不容易

当眼泪瞬间化成雨让爱情消失在雨里

整颗心被想念揪在一起

爱恋着雨就像猜不透的谜

爱恋着你眼泪淋湿了记忆

好想拥抱你认真对你说我愿意

永远不分离这一切都已成过去

爱恋着雨我恋着雨恋着你

爱到最后听见心也在叹息

想约在雨季却又和你擦肩而去

注定要别离伞下的幸福不属于我和你

注定要别离伞下的幸福不属于我和你 #

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Life Stages - Your 20s

2009-12-03T00:39:00.000-08:00

Looking good! In your 20s, your skin cells regenerate at top speed, leading to a complexion that's generally smooth and radiant. Plus, collagen and elastin, the proteins that give skin its resiliency, are firm and plentiful. Prevention is your primary job when it comes to skin care-because you want to maintain this youthful glow for as long as possible.

Tips

Review your regimen.

If you're still using the oil and acne control products you favored as a teenager, take a fresh look at your skin. By this time, sebum production begins to slow in many young adults and it's possible that the formulas that served you well at 16 may be too drying for your complexion today.

Moisturise.

If you haven't yet found a good moisturiser, now's the time. The right formula will keep your skin smooth and supple. If you remain challenged by excessive oil or acne, (as many young adults are) look for an oil-free formula. Regardless of what you choose to use, it should contain an SPF 15.

Rethink the junk food.

Your on-the-go lifestyle probably combines lots of school or work and socializing, which means that cooking is low on your list or priorities. But too much sugar and fat can actually speed up the aging process. Exchanging a few burgers for salads each week will help you look and feel younger for a very long time.

Exercise for fun.

Fitness is for life, so make sure you're mixing it up when it comes to your workout. If you're stuck in your gym routine, consider joining a volleyball team or signing up for salsa classes to keep your interest level high. If you equate fitness with fun, sticking with it will never be a chore.

Life Stages-Your Teens

2009-12-03T00:34:00.000-08:00

Right now, your skin is at the peak of its powers...it's firm, resilient and even. However, many teens find that oiliness and blemishes present a challenge. But the good news is that wrinkles remain in your distant future! Now is the time to learn about your specific skin type and discover the solutions that work best for you. Save for the future. Although it won't be apparent for many years, the damage that occurs today is what will be evident when you get older. So if you take good care of your skin right now, it will stay younger-looking longer.

Tips:
Rule number one? Avoid UV exposure.

Sun affects your skin long before you actually see the damage...and when you do, it's irreversible. Use your sun smarts and always wear sunscreen.

Get into the skin care habit.

It's never too early to start a twice-daily skin care regimen. That includes cleansing, toning and moisturizing, morning and evening. Choose products that are designed to treat your skin right. If you have special concerns, like oiliness or blemishes, add customized treatments and products containing benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid to your routine.

Study nutrition.

Learning the basics about healthy eating will help you form a lifetime of good habits. In general, try to eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables, lean meats, fish, whole grains, and low-fat dairy products. Limit your consumption of sugary snacks, sodas and high-fat fast foods. Drink lots of water (aim for more than 3 litter of water a day). Don't skip meals.

Get moving.

Turn off the TV. Log off of the computer. Try to spend at least 30 minutes a day working up a good sweat. It will help your body stay strong and healthy by burning off the bad stuff and quickly restoring the good. The payoff? Shiny hair and glowing skin!

我的失落，他的支持

2009-12-03T00:00:00.000-08:00

至上帝，

最近我很不上进，很没有目标。我已经迷失了自我，我好累，我想离开，离开这劳累的地方。可以吗？对我来说，我已经放弃了。每当要好好的过，问题就一连再，在而三的到来。有一句话说“当上帝为你关了一道门，也为你打开了一扇窗”我知道呀！我的窗在那里呢？我不知道哦。。当我在寻找时，我已经失去了某些东西。这些东西是别人在看着的。老师说：别人不是看你说什么，而是看你做什么。我为了保留某些东西，我就失去了一些。你看，这就是要学会一样“抉择要放在努力前面”。我对自己要求太高了，每次都要平衡生活上的东西。例如, 爱情，家庭，事业，学业，朋友的快了，自己的兴趣。根本很难嘛~ 我不会选呀！我认为全部都很重要。。你看咯。贪心吧，弄累自己，要逃了吧。不过，知福，惜福，造福。我会满足现状的，就借我一个避风港让我休息一两天去面对你赐我成长的机会，谢谢你上帝。

你的塑造品
婉婷

至婉婷：

孟子曰：「天将降大任於斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤，空乏其身，行拂乱其所为，所以动心忍性，增益其所不能。」。窗也许窄了些，你看不见。又或许你看见了而不相信。但它们永远还是为你而开。。

要相信哦，你是幸福的。好好珍惜你的幸福吧~ ☺

你的附属品
靖杰

生活的忠告

2009-12-02T21:13:00.000-08:00

生活的忠告
多吃些粗粮.给别人比他们自己期许的更多，并且用心去做

熟记你喜欢的诗歌不要轻信你听到的每件事，不要花光你的所有，

不要想睡多久就睡多久。

无论何时说“我爱你”，请真心实意。

无论何时说“对不起”，请看着对方的眼睛。

相信一见钟情。

永远不要忽视别人的梦想。

深情热烈地爱，也许你会受伤，但这是使人生完整的唯一方法。

用一种明确的方法解决争议，不要冒犯。

永远不要以貌取人。

慢慢地说，但要迅速地想。当别人问你不想回答的问题时，笑着说“你为什么想知道？”

记住那些敢于承担最大风险的人才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就。

给妈妈打电话。如果不行，至少在心里想着她。

当别人打喷嚏时，说一声“妈妈保佑”。

如果你失败了，千万不要忘记汲取教训。

记住三个“尊”：尊重你自己；尊重别人；保持尊严，对自己的行为负责。

不要让小小的争端损毁了一段伟大的友谊。

无论何时你发现自己做错了，竭尽所能去弥补。

动作要快！无论什么时候打电话，摘起话筒的时候请微笑，因为对方能感觉到！

找一个你爱聊的人结婚，因为当年龄大了以后，你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点。

找点时间，单独呆会儿。欣然接收改变，但是不要摒弃你的个人理念。

记住，沉默是金。

多看点书，少看点电视。

过一种高尚而诚实的生活。

当你年老时回想起过去，你就能再一次享受人生。

相信自己，但是别忘了锁门。

家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的。

尽你的全力让家平顺和谐。

当你和你亲近的人吵嘴的时候，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻，烂谷子的事。不要摆脱不了昨天。

多注意言下之意。和别人分享你的知识，那才是永恒之道！

善待我们的地球。不要愚弄自然母亲。

忙自己该做的事。

不要相信接吻时从不闭眼的伴侣。

每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方。

如果你赚了很多钱，在活着的时候多行善事。这是你能得到的最好回报。

记住有时候，不是最好的收获也是一种好运。

深刻理解所有的规则，合理地更新他们。记住：最好的关系存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求之上。

回头看看你发誓取得的目标，然后评判你到底有多成功。

无论是烹调还是爱情，都用百分之百的负责态度对待，但是不要期求太多的回报

我看了这篇文章有一点赞成，但以下是我本身根据老师教导的翻本。

改篇版

检讨自己是教育别人最好的方法，做人做到被人尊重，被人爱戴，被人需要。

对于每一件事，怀疑是应该，求证最重要，过后加以判断。

不要花光你的所有，无谓的花费叫做浪费。我们要把口袋的钱投资在脑袋，拥有知识，就是拥有财富。

不要想睡多久就睡多久，只要有健康的四个小时睡眠就足够了哦。而且我们要拥有目标，因为目标是人生的清醒剂。

请真心实意地说“谢谢你，我爱你”，因为珍惜才能拥有感恩才能天长地久。

不管做错什么事，请勇于认错。

相信天上最美的星星，人间最美的温情。珍惜你的朋友和家人。
与其让生命生锈，不如让生命发光发热。永远要相信我还有梦。

相爱容易相处难，也许你会受伤，但这是使人生完整的唯一方法。

用一种明确的方法解决争议，不要冒犯，要有和平，感恩，知福的心。
永远不要以貌取人，每个人都是卧虎藏龙。

慢慢地说，但要迅速地想。

面对问题时，请别放弃。你面临困境越多，代表你又离目标更进一步了。
时时刻刻给爸爸妈妈打电话，因为孝顺不能等，意外和明天不知哪一个先到。
如果你失败了，没关系，失败是成功之母，检讨是成功之父。
记住三个“尊”：尊重你自己；尊重别人；保持尊严，对自己的行为，承诺负责。
不要让小小的争端损毁了一段伟大的友谊，控制你的情绪，等于控制你的未来。
无论何时你发现自己做错了，竭尽所能去弥补。动作要快！

无论什么时候打电话，摘起话筒的时候请微笑，因为对方能感觉到！
找一个和你有共同理念的人结婚，因为它能把你们牵引在一起。
找点时间，单独呆会儿。欣然勇于改变，但是不要摒弃你的个人理念。
言教不如身教，身教不如镜教，人是环境的孩子。
过一种高尚和有文化的生活，生活谈论美丽，健康及财富。

当你爬得越高，我们越要有谦卑的心。
相信自己，只要你相信，奇迹一定会出现。
家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的。
尽你的全力让家平顺和谐。
当你和你亲近的人吵嘴的时候，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻，烂谷子的事。不要摆脱不了昨天。脾气来了，福气走了。要留住脾气先送走脾气。
和别人分享你的知识，那才是永恒之道。成功者苦口婆心，失败者莫不关心！
善待我们的地球。不要愚弄自然母亲。
成功的人是做应该做的事，不是做自己喜欢做的事。
相信所有你遇到的人一定会成功。
每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方，因为所见所闻改变一生。
在活着的时候多行善事，集公德。你爱别人多一点，上天爱你多一点，你爱自己多一点，上天爱你少一点。
深刻理解所有的规则，合理地更新他们。记住：最好的关系存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求之上。
回头看看你发誓取得的目标，然后评判你到底有多成功，与完成的小事，胜过计划中的大事。
无论是烹调还是爱情，都用百分之百的负责态度对待，得失心不要那么重。

朋友餐厅的结束

2009-12-02T20:32:00.000-08:00

2009年11月21日是朋友餐厅的结束。当天的心情是多么的不舍得，我哭了，我抱住玲时，眼泪很自然的流下来。玲告诉我：“你可要坚强哦。”我当时哭不是因为不坚强，只是我太不舍得你们了，我会很想念你们的。虽然我只是认识那里的朋友只区区一个半年，但是我当他们就如我的兄弟姐妹。再会了，我的朋友们。朋友餐厅的结束不会中断我们的友谊的，我爱你们。

Living In A Grateful World

2009-11-28T08:23:00.000-08:00

Be grateful to those who have hurt you,
for they have reinforced your detwrmination.

Be grateful to those who have deceieved you,
for they have deepened your insight.

Be grateful to those who have hit you,
for they have reduced your karmic obstacles.

Be grateful to those who have abandoned you,
for they have taught you to be independent.

Be grateful to those who have made you stumble,
for they have strengthened your ability.

Be grateful to those who have denounced you,
for they have increased your wisdom and concentration.

Forgiveness

2009-11-28T07:42:00.000-08:00

Everybody makes mistake, and so i do.

I have make a greater mistake in my life that make me can't forgive myself. My silly and childish had hurt the one who love me the most. I hurt the one who had been love me and sacrifice to me, the one i love before, my family, my friends and my current lover too. After the incident, it let me feel the power of forgiveness. It gives hope to a person. We all do make mistakes and we learn from mistake; which call experience. My ex-boy friend has this principle in his life; "It is ok that you make mistake, it is stupid if you repeat it once more". (^.^) I don't know can say he is the one forgive me or i am the one forgive him. Some of my friend say i should have the dignity not to contact him anymore. Frankly speaking, i do appreciate the moment we are together. He makes me learn a lot of thing, makes me understand the reality of world, makes me to be independent, makes me stronger.

Thank you for your forgiveness. Dear all of you, sometimes i may hurt you because i am not perfect. I do make mistake. I will try my best to do whatever i can.

Friends Cafe

2009-11-27T09:15:00.000-08:00

This is a special place not only for me but many people.

Customers, friends, lovers, crews have spend a great time there. back to the topic, i have one of the crew in friends cafe. During the time i feel depress, i walk and walk on malacca road. I am looking for some place for me and i saw this place. I walk into the cafe, choose a place which near the bar and sit down. This is the time i met him, he bring me a menu. I order hot chocolate milk because i need some hot beverage to warm up my body. Then i start to feel this place, i can use a word to describe the environmet of this place which is "friendly". Why? ^^

This is the reason i interview for this job. I want to investigate how the environment is built up. You can feel the friendship between crew and crew, crew and guest, guest and guest there. Nice huh... The bond between each other is built up because of this place, what they have done?How they make this happen? Many question marks had appear in my brain, i wish to know it because as a student of bachelor of hospitality management, i hope to know more for widen my view and knowledge.

Drawing

2009-11-26T03:04:00.000-08:00

What is my hobby? I have many hobbies.

However, my favourite hobby is drawing. Why? *smile*

I don't really know it. Just drawing can comfort me while i feel uneasy. During examination period, i feel stress. Then i don't think i can continue reading the reference book again, so i start to draw on my notes.

Tada~! This is my production.

Bluek!!! Sorry la, my drawing so so only because i never been a proper drawing class before. PLease forgive me ya..hahahaha...

孝顺不能等

2009-11-26T01:56:00.000-08:00

看了2012, 我有所感触。

各位，你们都爱你的另一半吗？你们是不是每天都和另一半说“我爱你”

可是，回头想想。我们最后一次和爸爸妈妈讲我爱你是什么时候呢？

妈妈怀胎九月，经过无数的煎熬，把我们生下来了。

爸爸呢，在外面受尽一切的委屈，都要赚钱回来抚养我们。

我们常常都忽略了他们，想一想他们几岁了呢？我们能陪伴他们的日子又有多少。

什么恩恩怨怨都好，不比珍惜在一起的时光重要呀。

所以，我们都要保持“孝顺不能等”的精神，来报答父母对我们的恩惠。

爱情

2009-11-26T01:23:00.000-08:00

你知道吗？爱情是个非常奇妙的东西。

它能让你感觉世界充满希望，也能让你感觉世界充满绝望。

它能成为你的动力继续往人生的道路向前走，也能成为你人生道路中的负累。

当觉得很累时，女的是不是又觉得窝在亲爱的胸怀是一种依靠。

而男的，是不是想要用尽全力保护你的另一半，不在乎付出。累的时候，只想要看女朋友的一个甜美笑容，就足够了。

当困难发生时，老实说。。其实彼此都觉得很难受，但是情侣常常都不离不弃。为什么呢？

因为呀，这是月老公公的游戏呀！^.^ 他老人家已把红线在对方身上套起来了。

不管你在哪里，在多遥远。彼此爱对方的心已经投过他的红线传送给对方了，没有人能取代的。

或许有时候的误解，让我们觉得很伤心，可能很想放弃。

各位，要相信哦，大家的偶遇是一种福气，而能在一起也算是一种缘分。

所谓：珍惜才能拥有，感恩才能天长地久。

珍惜对方的一切，感恩能在万众中的奇遇。

Unforgettable Day For My God Brother

2009-11-24T20:07:00.000-08:00

21st November 2009

It is the unforgettable day to Tony Chan (my god brother) and his beloved wife Cherry Tan. Before the day, i request to help out them on the photography job. How nice if i could snap up all the special moment on that day.

Wedding Lunch Destinatation ORNA RESORT

The bride - Cherry Tan

The Bridegroom - Tony Chan **

The Wedding Car
(6600 for my god brother which mean 6 principle to achieve a perfect life)

Happiness sticker that stick outside the room

Bless the new couple , Cheers!!**

My god brother always trying his best to give the best life to his beloved. Therefore, I am here to wish them have a happy and wonderful life. Gambateh neh!! God brother!!

ATTENTION

Not all the photo onabove is taken by me, except which has the star mark.

SLR Training

2009-11-24T19:15:00.000-08:00

Guess what! A picture tells a thousand words. Recently i start to learn how to snap photo by using SLR!

This is my shifu for teaching me to use SLR.

P/s* : Sorry ya, i cannot directly put up his face.

Reason 1.) he likes to create mysterious

Reason 2.) Later he want to collect his copy rights

Learning

Arggg... This picture is snap by Moniqa!!! She snap it while we are having class in TFC.

Cheers to the bride and bridegroom!

This is the recent photo i take from my god brother wedding. How was it ? ^^

Target:

Hopefully the coming time i can improve in my photography skill. It is because i wish to keep not only me but everybody's memory in the photo that taken by me.

The Message that i receive from you.

2009-05-27T06:03:00.000-07:00

What

is LOVE.

Love is like music,

it can be joyful or sadly,

everyone's love song was a different

kind of frequency of love are everchanging.

Thus, love is beautiful, but it is not everlasting nor eternally.

The secret of happiness is this: let your interests be as wide as possible, and let

your reactions to the things and person that interest you be as far as possible friendly rather than hostile.

*THANK YOU for the person who send me this.

I am lost

2008-07-25T05:29:00.000-07:00

Today I watch 溏心风暴 got one scene is about a guy’s name is Alfred. After break up, he always writes his daily journal, he cannot let go his beloved girl friend. Suddenly every previous thing comes back to my mine, from January I start to write message to him, one day follow by one day, non stop. Until 100 messages. Too bad to say that he tell me he don’t receive any message. The guy in the drama series, Alfred say when a person is sad, what he want to do just write out the feeling. When I am sad I really have think about it. When I am sad, i feel that I want to have one person to care of me, accompany me. However no body can do it, I message to my friend “ I taught you are that person can accompany when I am down, lonely and sad but he told me he couldn’t make it . It’s because he has girl friend, his girl friend don’t like it. Apart from that, my roommate has told me, when a guy already has girl friend, they won’t have times and effort to console or comfort you. Last time I always feel I am very lucky, god always with me and help me. Now I don’t think that, I just thinking when I have problem, I need to learn to be strong and bear it. No body will care, no body can help, no body can even listen or understand. i tell my friend if one day he come back to me, i won’t together with him again. I don’t know why I don’t feel want to angry him. It’s funny to say that I have tried to angry him, I fail to do it. Hahaha, I can’t believe that I will try to angry a person. I am such a weirdo. For him, no angry, no happy but sad. I always think that I can forget him, treat him as a unimportant person or this person never appear in my life before. Unfortunately, I cannot make it. When I think back, my tear will drop automatically, cannot stop. While I am crying, i know that I cannot lie to myself I still miss him and love him very much. In his mind I am just a character can be forget and throw away. Everything that happened previously is it a dream? Our story is just exact same like the love story in movie or drama. Is all this just a fake to me? Who is him? I can’t recognize who is him now. What is reality? How’s human character? I am really tired of all this kind of thing. I want to cry! Cry and cry and cry until tired then sleep. My classmate told me that people have prejudice to me because I don’t even can manage my thing properly. I always try my best to do everything. May be I really cannot control what people say, maybe my life already not the same as other people, I don’t know what I do consider correct, what is my responsibility? I have no direction. I cannot protect myself, how I going to protect other people? How I going to make my family don’t worry about me? I am so tired now. May everything that happen before just a nightmare for me, after wake up then I will forget everything. Be tough, be happy, you can do it Wan Ting.

I am polluted!!

2008-05-18T05:05:00.000-07:00

Hahaha... people always will say the environment is polluted but today i want to tell everybody i am polluted because i have been bar before.

Date : 18-05-2008

Venue : The Cube

Noob is driving car.

Today is David birthday then Soo Lim gather some of his friends like Gek Li, Sze Min, Sze Min's bro, David's gf, Aaron and me celebrate his 20th birthday.Around 4-5pm, David drives car, fetch me, his gf and Soo Lim. We reach Soo Lim's house at 7.00 pm. That time he just after working, then we are waiting him for preparation. So slow~~~ hahaha.. David's gf cannot stand for it keep saying him. Soo Lim presents David a monkey key chain.

The green one is for Soo Lim and the purple one is for David. Soo Lim mention that the purple monkey looks noob so suitable for David.

After that, we go to Melaka Raya Secret Recipe take David's cake.On the way, David and David's gf keep halau-ing Soo Lim from car, make Soo Lim feel so frustrated and complain that they bully him. Hahaha..

This is David's birthday cake- Ice cream flavour

Then we are heading to friends Cafe. Muahahaha.. i order Friends Grill and Hot Apple Milk. This friends grill cannot be find in the new menu. I know this dish because of Han Siu. Yummy~~ it is so nice, egg, hush brown, black pepper chicken chop, tomato and vegetables are the best combination.

Friends Grill

We have a lot of fun there such as chatting, playing and taking photo. David always do something funny, that's why Soo Lim always call him as noob.

After that, Soo Lim come out one idea that go clubbing at The Cube. At that time David tease me say that my costume is not suitable for clubbing. I am wearing one short, T-shirt and slipper. Arg~~ i will never forget that because my 1st time clubbing wearing is so CASUAL. Before enter The Cube, they have to cop one The Cube Logo on our hand.

The Cop.

During clubbing, Soo Lim order 2 bucket of beer. Seriously speaking, i don't like beer. I can say in my 19+ years, i never drink beer before. On the day, i drink 1 bottle of 5% alcohol beer. Of course i am drunk, Gek Li drunk too.What is the feeling of drunk? David says when u are drunk, you feel you are floating.I have the feeling so it is proven i am drunk.Some more, I dare to step on the dance floor to dance, it's weird because i am wearing casual.

My father 60th birthday

2008-05-10T23:14:00.000-07:00

This is my today costume, so GOLD!! hahaha!!

1st Dishes - Mee Siam

2ns Dishes - Leng Pan ( Cold Plate )

3rd Dishes- Shark Fin Soup

When i am eating this, i heard my sister says the sharks are going to extinct because many of chinese always eat shark fin, especially in Asia area. Do you know what the people do to the sharks?

Catch the shark

Cut the shark's fin

Throw the shark into the sea

The shark cannot swim and die because of starving or over losing blood.

STOP EATING SHARKFIN, YOU CAN MAKE THE DIFFERENT

4th Dishes - Stim Fish

5th Dishes - Grill Pork Skin

6th Dishes - Fried Prawn with Sauce

7th Dishes - Fruit Tart and Scallop ( The weird combination that i've never seen )

8th Dishes - Abalone with Sea Cucumber

Last Dishes - Sea Coconut Tong Shui (Desert)

The big cake is bought by my cousin and the other cheese cake is made by my father's office worker.(I tell you, it taste good.You eat one bite and you hope to have another bite)

My father and my aunt are same birthday.

I am the day "CAMERA GIRL".

Cish cish... budak minum Red Wine.. Nanti kena polis lock up

Han Bok

2008-05-08T08:04:00.000-07:00

Hahaha! Last time, madam ( my previous boss) come back from Korea. Before that i ask her to help me buy the Korea tradisonal costume for me - Han Bok. She choose the pink colour Han Bok for me, it's so nice. My friend's Han Bok's colour is light yellow top and red dress.

Me wearing Han Bok, nice!!!

I am TAG!!!

2008-04-25T23:50:00.000-07:00

Instructions: Remove ONE question from below, and add in your personal question, make it a total of 20 questions, then tag 8 people in your list. Notify them in their chatbox that he/she has been tagged. (instructions intelligently modified by the current author =P)

1. Are you creative?
Ya. Why i say that? It's because i like to do handcraft and create card to my half or friends. *the point not strong eough, right?*

2. Do you like Yen Mei?
I am not very close with her but I like her and I like everyone.

3. If you only can choose one and give up another one, career or relationship. Which one you'll choose?Why?
I think i will choose relationship because i always hope i can have my owe family, i am the one taking care of children and my husband earn money for family.We share our burden together.

4. If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
I hope i can have my own happy family. ^^

5. Do you believe in seeing a rainbow after the rain?
Not really, i won't see it if too cloudy.

6. What are you afraid of losing the most now?Electricity supply and wireless connection. Cuz I haven’t saved this piece of work. But since the question implies only one answer, I shall say electricity supply. Cuz if wireless takde still can leave the com on till wireless comes back on.

7. If you win $1 million, what would you do?
I will use half to invest ( such as buy house or land and do some business) and bank in another half of the money to get the interest.

8. If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
Yes, I will. From my point of view, it's very difficult to find a person you love.

9. List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you.
Tse Hwei ah, She is caring, clever and helpful.

10. What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
The most important is i love him, it's already enough.

11. What annoys you the most?
N.A.T.O (No action talk only)

12. Which do you prefer from your other half? hug? or kiss?
Hug!! because it's warm.

13. If you have faults, would you rather the people around you point out to you or would you rather they keep quiet?
I hope them point out to me.

14. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
Trustworthy among friends, family and your lover.

15. Are you a shopaholic or not?
Hmmpm.. I have no idea. If i really need the thing i will walk the whole supermarket shop for it. Normally i don't do that.

16. What kind of electronic device/gadget you own that you like most?
Computer lor.

17. If you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change?
Me?I am pessismistic so i hope i can be optimist.

18. What makes you feel disappointed?
Reality in life

19. If given a chance, do you want to see your future?
No.we'll face problem in every moment.If i choose to see the future i'll feel scare, insecure and worry for the problem that will coming.

20. What do your friends label you as?
Observant, brave, creative, caring..(don't know la)

Bad Service

2008-04-25T22:48:00.000-07:00

Why i put the title as bad service?

My mom ordered those furniture since 26 Feb and 25 April only they send us the furniture.
They promise us ,the stock will be arrive before 10 April but they didn't make it.
They send us wrong bed, the bed we ordered not that high.
They promise us will come in the afternoon for changing the low bed but they didn't make it.

If i drop from this bed, my bones sure break.

These are the computer table and drawer

Celebrating birthday for a Japanese Uncle

2008-04-24T23:06:00.000-07:00

The Japanese uncle is my boss best friend, he always go to "Soo La Kan"(my working place) for dinner. He he, he is a hilarious person and his English speaking not really good. However i still can catch what he want to say. Today he ask me to switch off the air conditional, then he tell me " Got money HOT!No money COLD! *Ermm....i think it's a joke*

The Japanese uncle and his wife

They are singing birthday song.

Hehehe.. they did sing Japanese,Korea, English and Chinese edition.I only know to sing English and Chinese edition. Besides that, i am busy taking photo *Grrr~~ the brother like very bo song i take photo* I don't understand why he is so "KAYU"!! No wonder his life is so dull, i guess he don't have any sweet memory before!!! *I assume that*

These are the birthday candles.

End up i also throw them into the dustbin! muahahaha

This is the cake that bought from Italy bakery!!!

I get one piece..What is the flavour?*thinking* Mocha i guess.

Playing at the kitchen*That's abang's hand*

When madam and his son (my boss) busy social in front, then i am snapping photo and playing around..Yoohhoo~~!!Don't think i am lazy, today is the 1st day i do that, OK? In other time don't have chance to sit and rest. *sobbing*

Lepak da Pasar Malam - to be continue

2008-04-22T21:23:00.000-07:00

Ha ha.. hello everybody. Last time my blog did mention that the "Pak Cik" who is selling ayam percik is very lucky because has these four loyal customers (Calvin, Dar, bro wee and Siu Siu)right?Too sad to say that, Calvin is sick the next day . =.="" ha ha ha.

This is Calvin ( not the baby)

We assume that he is sick because is ayam percik. Why? Let us see the picture below.

The 4 loyal ayam percik fans are busy tasting the ayam percik, yummy~~

You see the way they eat the ayam percik can show how much they like it. Luckily they don't get chock if not i also don't know what to do.

Siu Siu : Ayam percik rox!!!

Bro Wee : Yeah~~ ayam percik rox! *Siu siu n Bro wee gives five to each other*

Sorry, sorry.. i am out of the topic, let's go back to Calvin.

What you see from this photo? Don't know? OK let's zoom in.

ZOOM IN

Aiyo~~ you see this Calvin. He drink all the ayam percik sauce. Of course he will get sick!!!

Conversation between Calvin and me trough MSN

Me : Wah, Calvin you have 7 days fever and 1 day mild

Cal : Yalor :(

Me : So kesian.The ayam percik so geng huh..fui~~

Cal : Ya, next time don't want eat ayam percik d. :(

Me : Ha ha, I just blog that you are one of ayam percik loyal customer. hahaha

Cal : Don't want to be loyal d, it makes me sick. :(

Me : Ha ha ha.. anti ayam percik!!

I personally feel that Calvin just jokes with me, he will never give up ayam percik!! hahaha !!

Ayam Percik ROX!!

( arrgg~~ what a lame ending )

Lepak da Pasar Malam

2008-04-15T22:54:00.000-07:00

left to right- Cal, Siu siu, Dar, Wee Sim and me (Shi yi is holding camera)

Today i go pasar malam with cal,dar,wee sim,shi yi and siu siu.. Actually gin yuan and pra D want join us but they have something on so couldn't make it. Cal and i was dicussing that want meet each other at 7 pm ,i reach there at 7.45pm because of Bro Wee - the si lambat..kekeke.. Our 1st station is "Ayam Percik" stall. Before that, Bro Wee insist want Ayamas but i couldn't make it .That's why he show his kindness and says "oklah, ayam percik also can but i want five!!!!" In the end,i only buy 6 for him to share with friends,luckily he didn't complaint hahaha. Calvin is very "paise" that i pay for the ayam percik but.... "Uncle Cal, just once a lifetime (wah,feel like very serious, what a "lifetime"..kekeke) u just accept it happily. Then we tumpang uncle's(a person who is selling drinks) place to eat the ayam percik... Here u can see the pic above, these 4 boys are enjoying their ayam percik and keep saying "Ayam Percik Rocks" .Haha, the Pak cik who is selling ayam percik sure very happy that has this 4 loyal customers, untung~nya~~!!

New Hair Cut

2008-04-12T01:18:00.000-07:00

Oh yeah~~~ Finally i get to cut my hair, I've been stand for 6 months didn't go for hair cut..Arggg.. My hair is very messy, can use "kusut masai" to describe myself. Do you know that hair can affect a person's appearance? Let's see the photo below.

Before- Look like ghost

After - Wow~

I use about 5 hours to make this hair because i am doing hair re bonding. However, my hair cut only spend only 5 minutes.Hahaha. This hair cut spend me RM180.00 *pocket got lubang d* Just because my blurriness, i ter-leave my earring there. Then i need to go and get back the next day.Yawn~~